May 6, 2025
Health Series 3: Dr Alison Levitt
Dr. Levitt is a leading expert in the field of Lifestyle and Longevity Medicine, Regenerative Medicine, and Functional Medicine. She is also renowned as an accomplished speaker, writer, and educator in her field. Her expertise extends to therapeutic plasma exchange (TPE), hyperbaric oxygen therapy (HBOT), environmental medicine, culinary medicine (founder of Doctor in the Kitchen/Flackers) , ozone therapy, aesthetics, including PRP, fat harvesting, and advanced regenerative cell therapies for joints, facial rejuvenation, sexual health enhancement, and hair restoration. She integrates bioidentical hormone replacement, weight management, IV nutrition, mindfulness, and lifestyle transformation into her holistic practice.
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Welcome to another episode of
come together
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the phone speaker when we're
live doctor live hello there we
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go we're live welcome thank you
so much for doing this thanks
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for having me in your beautiful
home I appreciate it having.
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You I'm excited so.
Tell me a little bit about
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yourself.
Tell me who you are, where you
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mentioned that you're from
Montreal originally and what do
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you, what do you do?
It sounds.
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Yeah, I have a lot in my little
tool.
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My little toolbox is quite full.
So I'm a medical doctor and I'm
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trained in family medicine.
But before I went to Med school,
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I actually went to India.
And I think that set the stage
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of my career path because when I
went to India, I got exposed to
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meditation and yoga and food is
medicine things at the time.
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I mean, now it's popularized,
everybody's talking about it,
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everybody knows about it.
But 30 years ago, 35 years ago,
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it was sort of the unknown.
You know, a guru was something
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weird.
And I got exposed to all that.
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And then I went to medical
school.
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So I had that already implanted
in me that, you know, meditation
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is really important.
Lifestyle is really important.
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What you eat is going to affect
how you feel.
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And it can also be medicinal.
So that changed the course of my
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career.
I went into family medicine and
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I did a residency and I was
actually looking for an
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opportunity after that to do
something innovative.
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And I ended up being the first
MD to work at a functional
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medicine lab.
What is that?
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What is?
What is the functional medicine?
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Abdu, would you like a minute?
Good.
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OK, yeah.
But if you want be there, yeah,
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so functional.
Medicine.
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So functional medicine, which is
now, you know, a really big
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field in medicine at the time it
was sort of unknown and really
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it's root cause medicine.
So in regular medicine, what I
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learned in all of my training
was people came to you sick and
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you treated them and in with a
probably a medication is more
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like, most likely the outcome is
you're going to be put on a
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medication.
Yeah.
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And in functional medicine is
like, how did you get here?
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What led to this?
What in your lifestyle, in your
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gut, in your microbiome?
Yeah, in your environment?
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Yeah.
Led to getting a disease.
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And can we reverse that?
And how do we do that?
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And that's fascinating.
So that's you were the first.
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And D to work at this company
used to be called Great Smokies
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Diagnostic Labs, and now it's
Genova.
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And I was basically going out
and educating other physicians
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and chiropractors about this
kind of medicine, like why
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essential fatty acids are
relevant to your health.
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And they're not learning that in
Med school.
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So at that time, no, I mean,
even today, they're not really
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learning.
So it's kind of ironic.
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It's great.
So so OK, OK, this is an amazing
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place to start 'cause I'm gonna
go back.
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This is a perfectly.
I just got started.
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I love it.
I.
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Know I'm so.
Excited.
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No, I haven't even gotten.
To so I know, but I I I this is
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considered as a combination of
like a class and a personal
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personal bio, right?
How'd you get to India?
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What were you doing in India
All?
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Right.
Well, so I kind of felt a little
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lost in my life.
Like internally, yeah, I mean,
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everything was going fine on the
outside, but internally I felt
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like something is happening that
I'm not aware of.
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Like I need to, I need to tell
you.
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Interested.
So I was 19.
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OK, Gotcha.
Cool.
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And I read this book.
It was called The Snow Leopard,
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and I think it was by
Matthiessen.
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And he went to Nepal to look for
the snow leopard.
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And he went trekking in the
mountains and Apurna and he
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never found the snow leopard.
But he found himself like he
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discovered more about himself.
He.
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You know, and I thought, that's
for me.
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I need to find out who I am,
what this is What what is this
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life thing all about?
On a really deep level.
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Yeah.
And so I decided to take a year
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off.
I'd been to McGill.
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I did my undergrad.
So I had AI was applying into
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Med school.
Actually, I was trying to decide
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do I go to Yeah, Well, I made an
in between.
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There usually is no in between.
You know, you just go from
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school to school to school to
school and then you become a
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doctor or whatever.
I needed an in between.
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And so I took AI took a time off
and I said he's going to go to
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India.
Of course, my my parents were
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just crazed.
I mean, there's a with your
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life.
You're wasting your life.
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Oh man, sure, sure.
And, you know, I was 19 and at
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19, you don't care.
You could do anything, right?
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You're really powerful.
It's funny how you're you feel
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so strong even though you're so
you don't know anything, which
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makes you.
But it didn't matter.
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I didn't know that at the time.
I'm like, I'm just going to go
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to India.
Yeah.
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And before I left, it was really
interesting because I kept
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meeting these people who guided
me towards this ashram in India.
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They I kept meeting these people
who are like, yeah, I've been to
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this place and you got to go
there.
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So in my back pocket I had, you
know, a name of somebody that I
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was a place I was going to go in
India.
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So I left.
I was going to go for a year.
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I was going to travel the world.
I was going.
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To was it like, what was it when
you got there and you were like,
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was it a whole, were you just
like when you got there?
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Was it, Oh my God, can I handle
this?
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And this is so exciting.
Or like, what was your initial
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reaction?
To that, you know, I had already
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been to Africa.
I went a year before I went to
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Africa and had like a wild
experience there where, you
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know, I was 17 and thrown into
like an adult position where I
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was actually working in a
safari, like just crazy kind of
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stuff.
So I had already even.
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Already the culture.
Shocks, Third world country,
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Yeah.
But India is unique.
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I mean, it is, you know, you
land in Delhi at the time it was
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it was like just hundreds of
people on the streets and
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incense burning and odd smells
and people grabbing at you and
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there's a lot of beggars on the
street.
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It was it was really
overwhelming.
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But I was so excited, yeah.
Because I was going to find
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myself, right?
Like, I was going to find out
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who I was.
And, and actually, before I
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left, I applied to medical
school, OK, which gave my
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parents a little sense of peace.
Like, hey, at least he's got,
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you know, some brain cells that
are still working.
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And then I jumped in and went to
India.
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And then I, you know, went to
visit where the Dalai Lama
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lived.
And I started learning about
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meditation and Buddhism.
And I'm like, wow, this is
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really cool.
And then I ended up going to the
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place that everyone told me I
needed to go.
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And I literally showed up there
and I saw all these, I mean, I'm
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going to say white people, like
Americans walking down the
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street with these shawls, like
these typical Indian shawls.
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And I thought I must be at the
right place, but I couldn't find
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the ashram because it was
hidden.
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And I was there for three days.
I was staying in AI mean I was
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living on $5 a day.
So I was staying in a really
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nasty place.
And I after the third day of bed
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bugs, I'm like, I'm out of here.
I don't know what people are
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talking about.
And I was walking down the
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street and coming out of the car
was this man with a beard.
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And he was he smelled beautiful.
He looked beautiful.
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And he's like, come with me.
And that was the beginning of my
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stay in this Austria in India.
So you're about to leave.
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I was about to leave.
I gave up.
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I'm like, this is not happening.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
And you know.
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So what do you learn?
What do you teach?
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How to start?
Was it formal classes?
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Was it one-on-one?
No, it was so organic.
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I mean, literally the reason I
couldn't find the place is
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because it there's no signage or
anything.
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It was just a whole bunch of
people sitting around
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meditating, talking about
spirituality.
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And that's how it was every day.
There was like two or three
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meditation sense sessions per
day.
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And then with the, with the
guru, they could be anywhere
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from 20 minutes to like 5 hours
it depending on what the guru
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wanted to do in that moment.
And it was completely
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unpredictable.
And I, I really think the reason
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that happened that way was
because to teach us about, you
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know, life is not predictable.
Yeah, it doesn't come in a slot.
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And when you're meditating, you
think, oh, it's supposed to go
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this way.
And one of the things I learned
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is meditation goes the way it
goes.
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You don't judge it.
You know, that's what prevents a
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lot of people from meditating is
they think I can't because my
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mind is racing.
And then what I learned is that,
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yes, your mind is racing.
Everybody's mind is racing.
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You just sit.
You just sit through it and you
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watch.
You just watch.
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You just.
Do you try to shift yourself to
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the mindset of like, almost like
observing your own mind, you
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know, like?
It's exactly what it is.
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You're basically sitting.
There, you're still watching.
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You're thinking, Yeah.
Yeah, well, you're not curious
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in, in, in this type of
meditation.
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There's no, it's just observing
and knowing that the thoughts
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are like the wave of the ocean.
They come and they go.
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And where are you in all of
this?
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Yeah, you're just, you're the
witness.
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You're just watching.
When I started carrying a little
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notebook around, a tiny little
notebook, it's in the car
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actually.
And it's literally just for when
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these little sparks of thoughts
that like I don't want to lose
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become like flashing forward.
Like when they come forward, I'm
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like, OK, just quickly get that,
get that down.
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And like, yeah.
And it's caused me to spend more
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time aware of my thoughts.
And then the more you're aware
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of them, I feel like the more
I've been able to follow them,
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you know, like, you know, I, I
feel like, almost like imagine
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if it's a movie set, right?
And it's all, it's all dark and
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it's Seattle.
So it's all, you know, it's all
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misty and you see a shape in the
back and you're like, you can
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either.
And like you kind of tell the
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outside of it what it looks
like.
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You like you want to kind of go
like see where, what it looks
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like in the light.
And you start like walking with
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it past and you, and you find,
oh, right, that's what it is.
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So like, I think a lot of people
have a lot of thoughts or
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experiences that they vaguely
recognize and they kind of just
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come and go and we don't give
them a lot of attention.
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But like, if you just follow
those thoughts down a little
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bit, then like they become a lot
more clear and then you start to
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know yourself more, you know
yourself a little better.
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It sounds like you're talking a
little bit about intuition too.
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OK.
Right.
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Like you, you have, you know,
there's, there's a fine line
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between intuition, like you're
feeling something and that, I
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mean, thoughts are coming and
going all the time.
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Yeah.
And some are positive, some are
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negative, Right.
You know.
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And so I think that the idea of
meditation is to understand, you
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know, I am not those thoughts.
Oh, you're not.
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No.
OK.
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I'm just the witness of those
thoughts.
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Incident.
What are you?
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Well, your space, you're like
you're, you're connecting to the
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energy of your being rather than
the thoughts.
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And So what happens is, for
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person who has a lot of
negativity in their life, it's
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very powerful because you
realize, wait, I don't have to
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identify with every single
thought that comes into my head.
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That is not truth.
That is not fact.
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They're just thoughts.
Oh, interesting, gotcha.
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We think we're our thoughts, but
we're not.
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We identify with every single
thought and it makes us crazy
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because it's just come.
It's the incoming is constant.
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So for not everybody is like
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Not everybody has a wild crazy
mind, but they call it the
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monkey mind because it's always
working.
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It's trying to attach, it's
trying to do.
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It's like all these thoughts
coming in, if you paid attention
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to all these thoughts, you would
be running your back and forth
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circles.
But if you took a step back and
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said, wait, I'm not these
thoughts, who am I?
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And that's the point of
meditation.
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Like who are you really?
So are you your experiences are
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you your actions?
Are you your relationships?
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Are you your?
According to Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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yeah, I'm in my life, Yeah,
yeah, no, you're none of that.
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So what then?
What are so you're?
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You're trying to attack, you're
trying to recognize that beam of
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light, that essence that came
into, you know, some people
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would call it your soul.
Yeah, right.
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This ethereal essence, if you
are not the body.
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So they would describe it like
you're this, you're this
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essence, you're this light.
And then you land in this body
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and you become Ephron, you
become Allison.
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And the minute you do that, you
become identified as that.
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And then your whole life you
build on that identity.
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But for some people, that
doesn't lead them into a very
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positive place or it just you're
not finding that sense of peace
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that you want in your life
because if you're always seeking
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from the outside, if you're
seeking your happiness from the
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outside, from your spots, Yeah.
Good luck.
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I guess your thoughts are you're
processing what's going on
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around you as opposed to coming
from within?
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Listen, if you know who you are,
like there are certain people
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that you meet and they're just
standing, they're standing in
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their essence, like they, they
know who they are.
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They don't need a degree.
They don't need to be told that
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they're that they're doing
wonderful things that, that,
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that they're amazing.
They just know.
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Yes.
And it's not from an ego
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standpoint.
They just know they have a
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confidence, they have a sense of
peace, a sense of calm, right?
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I think most people are looking
for a sense of calm, a sense of
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peace in their life.
And this meditation was a way to
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find that.
So eloquently and I think we
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need I think so many people look
at that.
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Oh, I've so many and you know,
it's fun.
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I think people I think you had
when you were younger and I
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think as you like learn to, I
think as you learn like the
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dance that is relationships in
the world and like life and
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teachers and like, you know,
boyfriends, girlfriends,
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everything.
Like you have to adjust to so
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many external forces that you
kind of lose track of yourself.
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And I think a lot of people and
then it becomes either scary to
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try to like be alone to, to
realize that you don't know who
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you are.
And that's what scares a lot of
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people.
And then there's the experience
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of if I find out, if I find out
who I am and I can't be myself
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homeless, like, you know, I
would say hypothetically for
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myself and not hypothetically,
but you know, for example, with
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myself, I don't, I don't feel
like I'm a salesman.
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I'm not a salesman.
It's not like my essence, you
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know, my essence, I said to all
I'm thinking about is like a
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sharer is like someone that like
relationships and sharing like
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that's, that's I never feel
more, I never feel more
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authentic and like I'm
fulfilling my potential and my
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purpose than when I'm doing
those type of things.
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And then it rejuvenates me and
it enhances every aspect of my
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life, you know, and actually
brings everything else that I do
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makes it better and more fun and
more meaningful and more deep
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and a more pleasant to be around
when I'm engaging those kind of
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activities.
And when I, if I don't do a
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podcast or I don't do any
writing or I don't do anything
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for a week or two or a month, I
become like a shell of myself.
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I feel it.
And I actually get down and I
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start to recognize that downness
in me.
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And I'm like, oh, I need that.
I need a fresh dose of writing.
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I need a fresh dose of an open
mic to play some guitar.
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I need to do a podcast or two.
And I do it, you know, And so,
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but it took, it took me 27,
2020, 627 years to figure that
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out.
I'm still figuring it out so
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good.
I'm so happy that it.
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I could be wrong, maybe I maybe
I'm not getting it, you know, I
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feel it.
I feel it.
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If you feel it, you're, you're
getting it, you know, 100%.
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It's all about how you feel in
your life on a daily basis.
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I mean, that's exactly what I do
in, in medicine too.
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It's about making people feel
look beautiful and feel good
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from the inside out, you know?
But there's a lot of elements
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that go into play.
And for you, it's doing stuff
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right that's really important
for you.
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For other people, it's managing,
you know, their diet or their
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lifestyle or their
relationships.
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Everyone has different elements
of their life that contribute to
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how they feel and their health
right there.
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It's all related, really 100%
related.
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But if you can feel good despite
whatever's happening on the
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outside, that is a miraculous
feeling.
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And that's not an easy place to
get to.
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And I'm not talking about
physical health.
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That comes.
I mean, just knowing who you are
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and feeling good within
yourself, whether you're doing a
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podcast or whether you're
married or single, have kids,
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none of that.
If you can just feel good and
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know who you are and feel calm
and at peace and move through
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life and be giving, like you
said, helping people and being
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like the Buddhist, that's a
beautiful thing.
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If you're, if you're there at
27, three days, two years. 2929
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yeah, it took me.
I started a couple years ago.
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Did you?
So when you came, I want to, I
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want to talk about that for a
little bit, But when you came
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back, did medical school feel
like a cold, like totally
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different universe than like
where you came from?
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It's funny because in fact, I
think I was, you know, it felt
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pretty culty in India, but at
the time I didn't feel like, no,
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you know, it helped me get
through Med school.
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I don't think I would have gone
through Med school without about
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meditation.
I really feel like it helped me.
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Really.
Yeah.
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First of all, it helps you
focus.
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Like it helped me study.
It helped me be like 1 pointed
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in my in my intention.
Like I knew, okay, I'm going to
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get through this, I'm going to
do this.
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But it gave me a mode of
concentration that I don't know
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I necessarily would have had
without meditation.
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I was meditating every day and
also I wasn't, you know, at the
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time you could be working 100 a
120 hours a week.
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And so if I could get a 5 minute
meditation break, it gave me
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energy like it allowed me.
So I was really grateful for
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that.
And I also had a bigger purpose
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in life and that, you know, when
you have a purpose in life, it
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changes everything.
Right, right.
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Gives you energy.
Just knowing, OK, I'm here to do
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this.
That really helps.
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Yeah.
That's interesting too, because
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I have a friend.
I have a very good friend of
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mine that's actually in Med
school now and he's a relatively
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uncommon case, I believe, I
don't know, but from my, from
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the people, from the friends
that I know in the world that
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I'm from, he's, he's in, he's,
he started Med school when he
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was married with two kids and,
and you know, and then I have my
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single friends that are in Med
school and for some reason he
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seems better at managing his
time and making his way from Med
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school.
I'm like, how do you do that?
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And he's like, well, I'm not
going to let my wife and kids go
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ignore it for 10 years, you
know, while I'm trying to get,
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you know, I'm going to medical
and residency.
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Like so like I almost have to
make it work.
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But I guess it's almost similar
to what you're saying.
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Like when you have that thing
that's grounding you and you
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have like that purpose that, you
know, like this is what I'm in
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school for and this what I'm
trying to accomplish.
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This is the purpose of it.
Then then you you learn to
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balance everything and not let
that slip aside I guess, right?
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Oh, it's a it's a huge driving
force, especially, you know,
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family.
Yeah, you need to support your
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family.
You want.
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If you want to maintain that,
Yeah, you have to be 1 pointed.
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Yeah, yeah, so interesting.
So that really helped you in Med
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school.
I think and residency, I kept
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going back and forth to India as
well.
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Oh, really?
Yeah.
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It was really pivotal in guiding
me.
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And then I kept learning when I
was in India, I kept learning
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about nutrition and Ayurvedic
medicine.
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And I realized, wow, like, here
I am in medical school learning
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about this kind of medicine, and
then there's other kind of
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medicines.
Like was it formal learning or
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how did you learn about that in
India?
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There were, Yeah, well, not, no,
it was not formal.
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There were Ayurvedic physicians
that I worked with when I was
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there.
And of course, you know,
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learning meditation and yoga was
all part of what I did every
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day.
And that really changed the
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course of my career because I
realized, wow, there's so much
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more here than just dispensing
medication.
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And I want to be part of that.
Yeah, get you out of that box.
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Yeah, it was for sure.
Yeah, it was.
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It was innovative at the time
and it I didn't know how it
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would manifest, but I just loved
it.
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And I loved, you know, thinking
that our ancestors have been
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doing this for so many years,
even though there's no clinical
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trial on this, there's got to be
something behind this, right?
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Like why are they doing this?
And, you know, Med school is all
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which is it's warranted.
Everything you learn has had a
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clinical trial study.
It's FDA approved.
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And then here I was exposed to a
whole other world of tradition.
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Yeah.
That, you know, my grandmother
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did it and they did it and it
and it worked.
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And so I'm going to do it too.
And I my goal was to men meld
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The Chew and practice medicine
that.
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Way so amazing, so unique it's
so cool.
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I I, I feel yeah the more I the
more I hear about about, you
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know stories like yours and
stories like this I feel like we
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should have for medicine at
least like these international
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programs where like, you know we
exchange of them great you know
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what we know and like you at
least just for a little bit of
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exposure you know and if a
student chooses you know says
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it's not my it's not my speed,
but like it's good to know that
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it exists and it's out there
then great.
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And if some, if it really speaks
to you, then that you could
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really implement that into your
life and we could have more of
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that, you know.
That would be a great idea.
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I mean, my schools, there's so
much you have to learn.
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Like I, in retrospect, I mean,
for many, many years I thought,
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I mean, I loved what I learned
and I appreciated it and I
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condemned it.
Like, well, we didn't learn
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nutrition, we didn't learn this,
we didn't learn that.
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And I realized there's a lot to
pack in.
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Learning the human body is a
tremendous task, you know, and
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you've got four years to learn
it in school and then, you know,
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X amount of years in residency.
I almost wish that part of the
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Med school curriculum included a
more like a more unique
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perspective because a lot of
what I learned in Med school is
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foundational.
And yet I feel like I don't know
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00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,320
if I ever used that ever on my,
you know, And I think couldn't
447
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,040
we learn a little bit more like
nutrition and food is medicine,
448
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,440
And you're, like you said, be
exposed to how other cultures
449
00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,320
dealt with different diseases
and ailments.
450
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,440
That would have been
fascinating.
451
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,000
Yeah.
I would have loved.
452
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,680
Especially especially if they're
as rich of history and tradition
453
00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:11,000
as something like India, you
know, like, I mean, America's
454
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,640
young, you know, like, yeah,
like it's a little arrogant of
455
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,560
us to say, oh, we've been here
for 300 years, you got it all
456
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,600
worked out.
We're not going to talk to
457
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,400
anyone else, you know, like.
Medicine is just a few years
458
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,360
behind.
I will say like even to like, I
459
00:22:22,360 --> 00:22:25,000
remember I was going out and
talking to physicians about
460
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,920
taking fish oils and this was
you.
461
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,640
Know somebody else mentioned me
yesterday, actually.
462
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,080
Fish oils.
Yeah, something he recommends
463
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,680
for everyone's.
Day and you know, the
464
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,200
cardiologist would laugh me off
the stage.
465
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,080
This is when I was working for
that functional medicine company
466
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,360
and it was really hard because I
really believed in it.
467
00:22:42,360 --> 00:22:45,080
There were studies that showed,
you know, not a lot, but there
468
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,800
was some scant studies that
showed it could be beneficial to
469
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,840
lower inflammation.
And they just laughed.
470
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,640
In the meantime, 25 years later,
they are prescribing it.
471
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,720
So medicine does catch up.
It takes time, Yeah.
472
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,320
And it needs people to say it
though.
473
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,240
It needs, it needs a so nice to
be done these to be pushed.
474
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,560
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And that's happening like the
475
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,800
world right now of medicine is
exploding with this, these other
476
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,800
types.
What are you excited about?
477
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,640
Tell me what you're all excited
about now, because I know
478
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,120
there's so much to be excited
about.
479
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:19,080
You know, it's so amazing
because now this whole world of
480
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,200
longevity medicine.
Exploding.
481
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,760
It's so great.
It's so great, you know, and
482
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,520
the, the funny part is like, if
you look at the basis of
483
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,920
longevity medicine, a lot of it
is sleep, lifestyle, exposure to
484
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,640
time stands like, so it's, it's,
these are basic elements that
485
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,160
most functional medicine doctors
or alternative physicians or
486
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,880
naturopaths have been talking
about for years.
487
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,160
Oh, that microbiome all of a
sudden is important.
488
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,640
So I love how it seems to all be
coming together now with the
489
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,800
inclusion of like technology.
It's going to be groundbreaking.
490
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,680
I mean, I feel like things are
going to dramatically change and
491
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,480
it's going to, it's going to
happen really fast because of AI
492
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,320
technology.
So I think the and you know,
493
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,720
medicine is going to be
medicine.
494
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,840
I mean, the way I see it is
medicine, like allopathic
495
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,880
medicine that I trained in is
always going to exist.
496
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,600
It's necessary, but it's for the
masses.
497
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,840
Healing.
Healing somebody is individual,
498
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:26,120
like it's personalized.
It's very different than healing
499
00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:28,800
the masses.
And I appreciate the need for
500
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,440
that.
But then if you want longevity,
501
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,680
if you want real health, you're
going to get really personalized
502
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,600
medicine.
And that's the only way to know
503
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,000
what you need as an individual
to be healthy.
504
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,520
We should have, you should have
the option to be a doctor of
505
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:48,120
medicine or a doctor of health.
And that way, you know, you can
506
00:24:48,120 --> 00:24:50,480
have a specialist that
specializes in particular
507
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,120
Medicare.
Because I feel like medicine,
508
00:24:52,360 --> 00:24:55,000
like the more that you people
talk about it and the more that
509
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,720
we think about it and the more
that we notice its application
510
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,480
and it's used, it's responsive,
you know, like it's just like
511
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,360
medicine is like no one pre
prescribes you, you know,
512
00:25:04,360 --> 00:25:06,800
steroids in case, you know, you
have inflammation.
513
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,760
They you wait for somebody to
get inflammation, you come in
514
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,440
and you do it.
But you can pre prescribe
515
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:14,200
someone sunlight.
You could pre prescribe someone
516
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,160
a healthy diet.
You could pre prescribe someone.
517
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,360
Hey, you know what?
Yeah, I noticed, you know, I
518
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,400
mean, I'm trying to tell my dad
now, my grandpa, you know, or
519
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,640
maybe you can tell me if you
know, a lot of the recent
520
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:30,360
research in terms of Alzheimer's
being some kind of, I've heard
521
00:25:30,360 --> 00:25:31,960
it being described as type 3
diabetes.
522
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,520
A Yeah.
And do you want to explain kind
523
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,240
of how that works a little bit?
OK, sure.
524
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,560
If you don't mind, if you're
familiar.
525
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,240
With it for meditation for brain
disorders, yeah.
526
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,080
Yes, because my, my so, my
grandfather was always afraid of
527
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,360
it.
He goes, it runs in our family,
528
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,600
but my grandfather was never
healthy until probably his late
529
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,240
50s, early 60s when he had a
heart problem.
530
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,200
He had a double bypass surgery
and then he started working out
531
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,840
after that.
But now, you know, within a
532
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,360
couple of years, his memory is
kind of gone.
533
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,000
And my dad does not really
exercise.
534
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,800
He moves around, He doesn't
really exercise and he doesn't
535
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,000
like do a line, doesn't take
care.
536
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,920
He doesn't take care to eat
healthy things.
537
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,360
And I'm like, Pop, you got six
kids, you got 6 grand for kids.
538
00:26:14,360 --> 00:26:16,120
You're 55, you have the entire
world.
539
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Why would you not be preparing
yourself for when you're his age
540
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,480
that you get to appreciate all
of that, you know, get to live
541
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,640
like that.
So what do you, what do you?
542
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,880
So do you want to explain to me
with some what we're learning
543
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,680
recently?
So I just want to just take a
544
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,720
step back for a second.
And then, you know, in medicine,
545
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,480
ultimately what happens is, you
know, you go and you see a brain
546
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,200
doctor or you go and you see a
heart doctor or you go and you
547
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,840
see an endocrinologist.
Yeah, it's very well.
548
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,880
It's very like in a different
boxes for different organs, but
549
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,600
you know, we're all connected,
like everything is connected.
550
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:56,240
So if you have diabetes or if
you have a metabolic disorder,
551
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,640
meaning if you have trouble like
insulin resistance or elevated
552
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:04,960
glucose or elevated hemoglobin
A1C, high lipids, it's not just
553
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,880
about your heart, it's not just
about diabetes, but it affects
554
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,800
everything it affects, You know,
we have 60,000 miles of vessels
555
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,400
in our body, 60. 1000 miles
miles of different kinds of
556
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,200
vessels.
OK.
557
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,440
OK.
So you can imagine there's a lot
558
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:25,760
of maintenance that has to go on
to keep those vessels flowing
559
00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:29,200
really well.
We know that every single organ
560
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,400
needs oxygen, right?
The brain needs oxygen, the
561
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,960
heart needs oxygen.
And you?
562
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,520
Know breathing so important.
It's like what it's.
563
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,640
Like breathing is so important.
I mean, it's it's why.
564
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,760
Breathing.
Is so important.
565
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,360
Essential and then, you know,
thinking of the things that
566
00:27:43,360 --> 00:27:48,640
could damage these arteries and
but the point is it's a highway
567
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,400
of connections, right.
So what affects one thing
568
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,040
affects the other thing.
If you have diabetes, it's not
569
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,200
just a problem with insulin and
glucose.
570
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,680
It affects the vessels, like the
micro vessels.
571
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,440
And you know what is the number
one nutrition, nutritional
572
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,400
component that the brain needs?
It's oxygen.
573
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,960
Like 20% of the body's oxygen
goes to the brain.
574
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,400
If you can't get oxygen to the
brain, it's going to suffer,
575
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,160
right?
If you have inflammation in your
576
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,760
brain because you have insulin
resistance or elevated sugars,
577
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,120
it's going to create
inflammation in the brain and
578
00:28:24,120 --> 00:28:27,760
that when the brain tries to
repair itself, right, it's going
579
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,240
to damage itself in that
process.
580
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,560
Because it's inflamed.
Because it's inflamed.
581
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,920
OK.
And inflammation comes from how
582
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,880
does what does inflammation
occur as a result?
583
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,360
Well.
I mean inflammation can come
584
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,520
from many different sources.
OK diet is one of the most
585
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,960
common initiating factors is not
having a healthy diet.
586
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,680
So I'm eating hamburgers every
day, right.
587
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,920
I'm eating hamburgers every day,
three meals a day or pizza and
588
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,880
hamburgers every day, Right.
So I look like I'm a balloon,
589
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,000
right.
Like.
590
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,080
Yeah.
Yeah.
591
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,160
Like a swell.
You could see like swelling.
592
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,400
Oh, I don't actually.
Let's say hypothetically I were
593
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:02,960
too.
Yeah.
594
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,320
And like you can kind of almost
like see when people look a
595
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,360
little swollen from like
processed food that they're that
596
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,720
they're eating or breads
primarily, I guess, but.
597
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,400
So again like so.
How does that?
598
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,320
How does that convert to
inflammation?
599
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:20,640
Well, if you think about it, so
first there's a gut issue,
600
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,200
right?
Like let's start from the
601
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,160
beginning.
So you're putting a processed
602
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,120
foods and there's hundreds of
chemicals in that food that
603
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,640
alone, you know, that hamburger
from wherever you're getting it
604
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,960
from, unless you're getting it,
you know, it's 100%.
605
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,840
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, we're assuming.
606
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,360
Not we're going.
We're going to eat at a fast
607
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:38,920
food place.
Yeah.
608
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,960
That thing is filled with
chemicals.
609
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:41,480
Yeah.
OK.
610
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,480
That's your starting point.
It hasn't even gotten into your
611
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,000
mouth.
And you just imagine you've got
612
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,760
this hamburger filled with
chemicals.
613
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,960
Now you're going to bite into it
and you're going to put that in
614
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:49,720
your gut.
Yeah.
615
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,640
And that all these chemicals,
some of them are going to be
616
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,640
absorbed.
Yeah.
617
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,080
And they're going to start
creating.
618
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,000
They have to be filtered out
through the liver and the
619
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,840
kidney.
So they're going to hit your
620
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,560
bloodstream, OK.
These are chemicals that are
621
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,120
hazardous to your health.
We don't even know what these
622
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,000
chemicals do.
Actually, a lot of chemicals
623
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,760
that are in our food are even
they're banned in Europe and we
624
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,240
still put them in our food.
Well, hopefully I'll be
625
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,640
changing.
Yeah, hopefully I'll be
626
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,680
changing.
But so now you've got you're
627
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,560
eating these chemicals, it's
going to affect your microbiome.
628
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,000
Yeah, which really has a huge
impact if you don't have a
629
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,600
healthy GI system.
Yeah, that's going to be a first
630
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,000
point where inflammation can
start, OK.
631
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,120
And then now you have these
chemicals floating through your
632
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,520
body.
That's another point.
633
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,840
We don't know what those
chemicals are with.
634
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,920
By the way, I was scared the
heck out of me.
635
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,960
Someone asked me the difference
recently between a chemical and
636
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,040
a drug.
I was like, I don't know.
637
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,040
They're like a drug.
A drug is intended for human use
638
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,160
and a chemical is not.
Well, I mean, that's, well, it's
639
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,600
almost like the word organic,
you know, What does organic
640
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,120
mean?
Like in the food industry, it
641
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,400
has it.
It means like the animal or, you
642
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,160
know, the produce has no
pesticides or chemicals.
643
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,360
Yeah.
But there's a lot of organic,
644
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:07,840
I'm quoting chemicals, right,
that are used in chemistry labs.
645
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,400
And so it's really it's kind of
like what yours.
646
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,520
What so it says organic on it
doesn't?
647
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:13,840
No, no, no, I'm not saying that,
OK.
648
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,960
No, no.
Like hopefully the foods that we
649
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,480
buy that are organic are
organic.
650
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,120
Organic, right?
You know, hopefully that means
651
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,680
something that would be awful if
it didn't.
652
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,360
I mean, there are people who
speculate that it may not all
653
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,560
the time, but you know, we can
only do our best, like.
654
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,040
We could only do our best.
We're, we're on this planet,
655
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,840
there's a tremendous amount of
chemicals.
656
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,080
There's plastics everywhere.
We're finding microparticles in
657
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,960
the brain by the way, you know,
so your productive.
658
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,640
Organs all over the.
Place it's affecting all your
659
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,760
hormones, it's affecting your
gut, it's affecting people's
660
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,440
longevity for the most part.
And then you, you know, you add
661
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,680
on things like like.
My plastic water bottle.
662
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,400
You never drink out of plastic
water bottle.
663
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,880
I know, I know.
One of my biggest clips.
664
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,280
Yeah, I'm sorry.
You know, I'm I pick up plastic
665
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,960
all day long on the beach.
Like I'm out there with a bag
666
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,840
and I'm picking up plastic and
I'm thinking why that this is
667
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,800
devastating.
It's devastating to your body
668
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,480
and and it.
Yeah, because they can't pass up
669
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,560
the four for the 40.
The 40 pack of water bottles in
670
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,240
Costco for $4.00 Pass it up.
Pass.
671
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,160
It up, get a water filter, get a
get a canister, fill it up with
672
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,040
water could.
A cooler be better or no because
673
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,920
it cools with one giant plastic
container as opposed to like a
674
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,480
bunch of little bottles.
It has plastic.
675
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:32,240
It's no.
Good.
676
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:37,440
OK, unless you're putting your
metal container into a plastic
677
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:38,280
cooler.
I got.
678
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,760
You, I would and you know,
you've got kids like you.
679
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:46,160
So what I tell my patients is,
you know, we may not have
680
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,560
control of what's going on out
there, but you have control of
681
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,480
what's going on in your life and
what you put in your body.
682
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,040
You certainly have a little bit
of control of that, right?
683
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,360
So you got it.
At least initiate, like, say,
684
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,840
OK, in my house, I'm not going
to use any chemicals, OK.
685
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,400
I'm going to, you know, my
cleaning products are going to
686
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,360
be healthy.
My I'm not going to drink.
687
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,440
I'm going to get rid of all my
plastic, all my plastic
688
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,360
containers.
I'm just going to use glass.
689
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,040
Easy.
Costco has glassware, you know.
690
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,920
Yeah, I'm going to get a nice
water filter system.
691
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,280
And I'm going to fill up my
bottles before I leave my house.
692
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,000
Like simple things that you can
do to change the course of your
693
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,120
family's health.
You mean you have a baby?
694
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,520
Yeah, OK.
Right, like even the.
695
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,120
It feels better hearing that
from you than my wife.
696
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,000
I.
Love her, she.
697
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,760
Was like, I want, she was like,
you know, she goes, I don't want
698
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,320
to pressure you.
I know that, you know, there's a
699
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,160
lot of bills in life.
She's like, I'd really, really
700
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,960
like like a water filter.
You know how much money you
701
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,120
calculate.
I would love to know how much
702
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,280
money you spend a year on on
water.
703
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,200
Bottles, I can tell you right
now, probably I'd probably spend
704
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,480
15, probably spend $12.00 a week
on water bottles.
705
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,520
OK, so I probably finished that
340 packs a week, so it's 120
706
00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,240
water bottles.
Yeah.
707
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,800
I don't want to think about the
amount of plastic that is.
708
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,280
Let's not even talk about
plastic.
709
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,840
Let's talk.
About water, yeah, yeah, so.
710
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,280
Don't care about plastic, they
care about money. 12/24/12 but
711
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:15,639
not really today it's about $36
a month time so I'm spending
712
00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:17,360
100.
I'm spending 120 bucks a year
713
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:17,920
100.
Dollars.
714
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,360
Now that's you.
You're one person.
715
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,679
How many people are, you know,
let's say your wife doesn't do
716
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:23,440
that.
Yeah.
717
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,000
OK.
So and then now you have the
718
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,800
years.
OK.
719
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,960
So how many years are you going
to, you know you're going to do
720
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,440
it for the next 20 years you've
done?
721
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:32,560
It.
Yeah, I've done it.
722
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:33,719
I've done it forever.
Yeah, OK.
723
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,360
And now you're going to do it
for the next 20.
724
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,800
So now we're up to a lot of.
OK.
725
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,400
Yeah.
So and what's the water filter?
726
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,840
What's the water filter cost
typically?
727
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,840
Couple thousand to us, Yeah.
Couple grand, I mean, you can
728
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,679
get a whole house water
filtration system that's pretty
729
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:52,000
decent, you know, for way less
than what?
730
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,880
And OK, so now we're going to
add in the chemical, the the
731
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,400
toxic component.
So you didn't just save money,
732
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,840
but now you're saving your cells
from a disastrous ending.
733
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,520
We don't even know what that
ending is actually, because
734
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:10,200
these chemicals, this, the idea
that we were exposed to these
735
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,720
PFAS, these long term organic
chemicals that sit in your cells
736
00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:17,480
for years and years, we are.
You know what the consequence is
737
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,160
not.
Really.
738
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,440
But we do know that, like,
cancer is rising, heart disease
739
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,040
is rising, yeah.
Yeah, but we know rising.
740
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,960
We know that whatever we've been
doing is not right.
741
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,240
That's what we.
Know, I keep saying to people
742
00:35:27,240 --> 00:35:29,880
like, OK, when I went to Med
school, the number one leading
743
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,200
cause of death was
cardiovascular disease.
744
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:37,000
You know, then it was cancer.
Still, we have cardiologists up
745
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,040
the wazoo.
We have medications, we have all
746
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,160
these things in play.
And what's still the number one
747
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,320
leading cause of death?
Cardiovascular disease
748
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,840
worldwide, 18 million people.
And it's like nothing has
749
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,400
changed in a way in so many
years.
750
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,080
Yeah.
So we're not.
751
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:56,160
What other direction can we look
in to change those statistics?
752
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,320
Because I don't want to become a
statistic.
753
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,840
No, you want to be a bit
statistic.
754
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,200
You want.
To be a bit and you're young,
755
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,360
like you're in a great, you're
in a great position because
756
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,680
there's so much new, there's so
much information.
757
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,440
Like, I know I'm always, always.
I'm so excited.
758
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,240
It's it's such an exciting time.
Really so exciting you know you
759
00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:18,520
have so many tools available to
you stay healthy I'm.
760
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,000
Not like more people aren't
getting, you know, I think a lot
761
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,960
of people are excited, but like
hearing all this stuff is just
762
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,200
hopeful.
Like to me, like it's something
763
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,000
that like people don't want to
hear.
764
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:34,320
I imagine we've had, like, bad
news travels really fast.
765
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,760
And like, when you have an
opportunity for good news and
766
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,520
they give an opportunity for
something exciting to hear,
767
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,080
like, Oh my God, we're making
great research.
768
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,160
All you got to do is just spend
some time outside to go for a
769
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,040
walk with your friends for 20
minutes, you know.
770
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,640
Yeah, a couple of times.
You know, a couple of times a
771
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,680
week, like just do that.
Like your life will already be
772
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,880
better.
Like you're getting community,
773
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,400
you're getting exercise, you're
getting out there, you're
774
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,160
getting sunlight.
Like I used to get these
775
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,160
headaches from sitting just at
my desk all day.
776
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,480
And then, you know, and I, I
spend probably 2-3 hours a day
777
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,080
outside now, maybe more.
You know, I love it.
778
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,320
And it just, even if I'm in
front of my screen the whole
779
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,120
time, just the sunlight in
general, just being outside
780
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,760
really, really effects my
stamina when it comes to work in
781
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,080
a positive way, effects how I'm
able to concentrate.
782
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,960
It stops those headaches from
happening and I am able to just
783
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,240
like just keep on going.
It's just we're meant to do
784
00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:21,320
that, you know?
You know, yeah, that's where
785
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,760
that those, our ancestors, you
know, they were actually forced
786
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,160
to do it.
I'm not sure they were happy
787
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,560
about it.
You know, getting up early in
788
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,160
the morning and watching the
sunrise.
789
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,160
They were out working, right?
A lot of our farmers are out
790
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,080
there working.
So, you know, looking at the sun
791
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,040
early in the morning, going out
at noon.
792
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,720
So it registers, OK, it's noon,
your body can actually register
793
00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:42,120
that.
Then going out again when the
794
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,680
sun's going down.
OK, now you know, we're going to
795
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,880
start, you know, calming the
body down, secreting hormones
796
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,920
that are.
So it's going to be 3 Jewish
797
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,400
prayers around the same time
too.
798
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,080
It's early morning as soon as
the sun comes up, noon and at
799
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,840
night after as the sun's going
down.
800
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,720
Imagine if you prayed outside.
Yeah, a lot of people do.
801
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:05,680
I know I do sometimes.
I do sometimes, but I never even
802
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,640
associated that with that.
But that could be part of the
803
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,480
value of a routine schedule
where every day it's a
804
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:15,440
combination of meditation and
actual, I mean, like, you know,
805
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,760
different points.
You're sure to get outside
806
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,200
between the point of waking up
and getting to synagogue or
807
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,320
praying.
Wherever you're praying or
808
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,880
whatever you're doing, you're
sure to be outside.
809
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,480
And your circadian rhythm will
be, I guess, consistent.
810
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,960
Oh, I mean, you can definitely
reset your circuit.
811
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,000
Like we have so many issues this
in our lives right now with
812
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:37,080
stress and sleep affecting our
health that, you know, if you,
813
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,600
if your circadian rhythm is off,
if you're not secreting the
814
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,320
right hormones, like you need
more cortisol, when you need the
815
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,360
cortisol, when you need that
energy and less at night when
816
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,360
you're going to bed, you want
that melatonin to kick in.
817
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,640
But you know, it's fascinating
because we like, I'm thinking
818
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,400
about you saying you go and you
pray three times a day, like
819
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,200
you're committed.
Yeah, something in, yeah, there
820
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,920
was a trigger, a switch went off
and said this is what I'm going
821
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,960
to do.
Like I believe in this, right?
822
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,240
Yeah, I don't did it like it may
have.
823
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,240
No, it came from the value of I
have a tendency to be lazy.
824
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:13,520
I think a lot of people do, and
laziness is my least favorite
825
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,600
trait in the world.
Because it takes every other
826
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,760
good trait that you have and
throws into the garbage.
827
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,360
Because doesn't make a
difference how smart you are.
828
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,400
Doesn't make a difference how?
Talking to the art doesn't make
829
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,920
a difference how naturally fit
you are.
830
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,560
It doesn't make any of that,
none of that makes a difference
831
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:27,560
because if you're lazy, you're
lazy, you're not going to do it.
832
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,960
So I part, I started
implementing that as a way to
833
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,600
fight my laziness.
And then I mean, you know,
834
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,800
obviously there is the religious
value, the spiritual, emotional,
835
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,360
religious value to it as well.
But one of the real reasons I
836
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:46,120
really started working hard is
because I did not want like its
837
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,920
regiment in the face of
laziness.
838
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,440
And then hopefully, and once I'm
already getting myself out of
839
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,920
the out of the just sitting
around zone, then that affects
840
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,880
everything else I do, you know,
and my wife asked me to do
841
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,480
something.
I'm much quicker to get up and
842
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,880
jump up and show her that I care
to do it.
843
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,960
If my kid is crying, you know,
my kid calls me or falls down, I
844
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,280
pop up.
I'm like, oh, it's not like, you
845
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,920
know, go, you know, do your own
thing.
846
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,160
I'm on the couch.
I don't want to get up right
847
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:10,840
now.
And hopefully it creates that
848
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,480
kind of environment, but it
affects everything in a positive
849
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,160
way, so.
It's kind of like that's your
850
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,480
form of meditation.
I guess so.
851
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,720
Meditation actually comes from
Yeah, I want to work on
852
00:40:21,720 --> 00:40:23,360
meditation.
I don't really know quite where
853
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,800
that is, but yes, we're gonna,
we're gonna circle.
854
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,080
Back yes, you can.
You can meditate while you pray.
855
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,400
Like meditation doesn't
necessarily mean sitting in
856
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,480
cross legged.
It can mean a lot of different
857
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:34,840
things.
You could be sort of active in
858
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,400
your meditation.
The Buddhists do a lot of
859
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,160
walking meditation.
But Oh yeah, I love that you can
860
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,560
pair.
Like if you were my patient, I
861
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,920
would say, OK, if I you, you go
three times a day, you pray.
862
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:51,360
Why don't you attach that to
going outside?
863
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,520
So now you're praying and you're
looking up at the sky, you know,
864
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,520
morning, noon and evening.
So now you're, you're also
865
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,520
resetting your circadian rhythm
at the same time that you're
866
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,320
doing something that you're 100%
committed to.
867
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:04,720
So you know you're going to do
it.
868
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:06,640
And that's how you create a new
habit, right?
869
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:11,200
Like and then now we have 2
lifestyle things that are
870
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,120
dramatically going to impact
your health because praying is
871
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,680
really calming.
I'm sure like unless you're
872
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,720
rushing to get there but.
Well yeah, it depends on the
873
00:41:18,720 --> 00:41:19,920
day.
I try to make it calming.
874
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,240
Yeah.
So if you can, I mean, if you're
875
00:41:23,240 --> 00:41:26,760
rushing through a prayer and
you're not feeling it, you know,
876
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,000
I think it's important to like
feel what you're saying or
877
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,800
praying for.
Yeah, I it's a, it's a struggle
878
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,760
every single time.
Is it?
879
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:40,600
It is it is because you're
plopping yourself out of goes go
880
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,000
mode.
And by the way, meditation would
881
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,040
probably help with my prayer
being more present because I'm
882
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,720
going I'm I'm shifting without
any transition.
883
00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:52,120
I'm shifting gears without
putting my foot, without putting
884
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:57,280
my foot on the clutch.
And so I so it's very easy if I
885
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:01,200
do it the wrong way to stall
out, you know?
886
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,960
Here's the thing.
So maybe what you can do.
887
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,800
So just give me a synopsis.
Where are you praying?
888
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,320
In a synagogue.
OK, so you have to go to.
889
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,760
Yeah, so I drive 15 minutes to
the synagogue, 1015 minutes.
890
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,680
Is that stressful?
No, it's very pleasant.
891
00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:17,240
OK, so while you're in the car
driving, if it's pleasant, why
892
00:42:17,240 --> 00:42:19,080
don't you start taking some deep
breaths?
893
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,640
Yeah, that's what I got to do.
You know, you got to take some
894
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,480
deep breaths.
You know, I'm breathing in, I'm
895
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,200
breathing out.
You can, you can say something
896
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,640
if it calms you down or just
focus on your breath while
897
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,080
you're driving.
And that'll immediately get you
898
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,640
into the present moment so that
when you get to the synagogue,
899
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,880
you don't feel rushed or afraid.
And the transition to prayer is
900
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,280
a natural one because you've
already been meditating,
901
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,160
correct?
And focusing on your breath for
902
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,320
15 minutes.
I'll be shifting from 1st to 2nd
903
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,080
to 3rd to 4th gear.
And this way you're not
904
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,880
shifting, you get in the car and
it's not easy like you to to
905
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,120
focus on your breath for those
15 minutes.
906
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,200
Try it.
It's not an easy fast.
907
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,920
I do 5 minutes at a time.
Typically when I'm overwhelmed,
908
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,920
I'll do in and out.
I'll breathe in for five
909
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,960
seconds, out for five seconds,
for 5 minutes.
910
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:08,280
And I'll just, sometimes I'll
just focus on where, sorry, just
911
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:14,560
like the time like 123-451-2345.
And sometimes, you know, like
912
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,200
that voice of 12345, the
counting voice kind of starts to
913
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,400
slip off to the side and then
other, other things start coming
914
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:22,800
in.
Like what?
915
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,800
Thoughts.
Yeah, the.
916
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,360
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And but it's, again, it's like a
917
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,800
current being pulled back, you
know, very, very slowly.
918
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,160
And it's a little scary,
honestly, to see what's going to
919
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,440
come because like, you're like,
oh, this is like, I don't know,
920
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:40,600
I've never been here before.
You know, I went to, I went to a
921
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:45,800
Grateful Dead cover band in Port
Chester and there's something
922
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,160
about this particular band.
They're awesome.
923
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,480
They're called Dark Star
Orchestra.
924
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,920
And I may have taken an edible
beforehand.
925
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,160
And I'm sitting there and there
are lights and use the music and
926
00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:00,880
I'm a little high and I and
it's, you know, this would be
927
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,280
and like the music was just
magnificent.
928
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,680
And I was like, and the lights,
the way they were playing into
929
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,040
the lights of the concert was
matching the tone of the music.
930
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,720
And I was like, I'm going to try
to do some breath work now while
931
00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:13,960
I'm here.
And, like, I almost kind of like
932
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:18,440
slipped into like some kind of
like, like psychedelic state.
933
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,840
Yeah.
You know, that I was like, whoa,
934
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,760
like, I'm not ready to, like, go
quite there yet.
935
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,560
And I kind of, like, stopped to
pull myself out of it.
936
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,520
But I'd be curious to see what
happens if, like, you kind of
937
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,880
follow those, follow those paths
all the way down.
938
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,240
It's just a little scary to.
There's nothing.
939
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,800
I mean, actually, those places
are magnificent.
940
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,440
I mean, it's hard to do if
you're on a if you're high, then
941
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,520
you don't know where you're
going to land.
942
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:43,240
But if you're not, that's a
different, that's a different
943
00:44:43,240 --> 00:44:46,760
thing.
And it is kind of scary to let
944
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,560
yourself go.
But those are good places to go.
945
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,200
I.
Know, I know, I know.
946
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,160
It's.
I've never had an experience
947
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,320
where I was scared to do it and
I regretted doing what I was
948
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,800
scared about.
Oh yeah?
949
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,720
Well, you know.
Yeah, but plenty of times I
950
00:44:59,720 --> 00:45:01,800
haven't done something I'm
scared about, and I've regretted
951
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,520
it, Right, You know?
So full story.
952
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,400
Are you ready for this?
Yeah, I've been keeping track of
953
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,440
the whole conversation.
So you have plastics,
954
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,880
microplastics that are in your
gut because you're eating this
955
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,760
cheeseburger and you got
inflammation.
956
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,200
And so now you're getting
inflammation.
957
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,440
Well, now let's say, for
example, a lot of people are
958
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,920
sensitive to wheat.
They have gluten sensitivities,
959
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,120
not necessary allergies.
It's not like you're going to go
960
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:27,120
into an anaphylaxis where you
need an EpiPen, but sensitivity
961
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,040
to wheat.
So now you've got wheat going
962
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,240
into your system, you've got
these toxins.
963
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:34,120
Chemicals that are in these
burgers.
964
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,640
So, but you know, right there,
yeah, we haven't even really
965
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:40,320
gotten into the body and we're
filled with the potential for
966
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:41,640
inflammation.
So that's.
967
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,440
So that means that inflamed just
means upset.
968
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,920
It means hurt, damage.
What does inflammation mean?
969
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,320
Inflammation in the traditional
sense means like you cut
970
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,840
yourself.
If you cut yourself, your body's
971
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,080
way of healing is it creates an
inflammatory response and then
972
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,000
cells get into that area that
actually heal.
973
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,480
OK.
You know, everyone, people talk
974
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,080
about inflammation like a fire,
you know, and you're putting the
975
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,080
fire out.
OK, But then there are little
976
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:12,160
fires happening in your body all
the time because of this chronic
977
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:16,560
inflammation that are stirring
things up that are creating
978
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:21,120
damage there to the cells, to
your the lining of your vessels,
979
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:24,800
creating a potential for a
plaque or to your organs,
980
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,480
creating inflammation in in
particular organs and, or you
981
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,080
know, if you have.
Because there's all these little
982
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,480
fires popping up around your
body.
983
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,040
Correct.
And so that's where chronic
984
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,680
inflammation.
And what and.
985
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,720
And if there's too many fires,
your cells can't keep up to put
986
00:46:38,720 --> 00:46:41,240
them out.
So it's activating your immune
987
00:46:41,240 --> 00:46:43,360
system, right?
So your immune system is no
988
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:48,120
longer reacting to a virus or
bacteria, but it's chronically
989
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,520
being activated and it's
creating damage.
990
00:46:50,720 --> 00:46:55,600
It's actually creating oxidative
stress and it's creating damage.
991
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,800
And that that ages people.
Right.
992
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,920
It creates the IT creates.
It's a setup for Alzheimer's.
993
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,280
It's a setup for a
cardiovascular event because the
994
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,720
lining of the artery can get
inflamed and the plaque could
995
00:47:08,720 --> 00:47:11,520
break off.
So it causes damage in many
996
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,800
areas.
Connections in our body, it's
997
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:20,120
almost like the the streets are
getting damaged for our like, is
998
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:21,320
that, is that like a good
metaphor?
999
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,320
Like if like the like, yeah,
like you're chipping away at the
1000
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,040
road and then it becomes bumpy
to drive down and you're like,
1001
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,080
OK, I'm not going to take this
road.
1002
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,640
Rd.
But you know, if you don't take
1003
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,560
that road then the connections
in your brain aren't going to be
1004
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,280
as stable or secure.
I mean pretty much if you think,
1005
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,840
I mean, I like to use the
example of fire because it
1006
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,560
actually makes a lot of sense.
So you can have an acute
1007
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,800
inflammation where something
happens, you cut yourself, your
1008
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,800
body sends things in there and
it puts the hose and takes the
1009
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,080
fire up.
But if you have this chronic
1010
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,840
inflammation from so many
different things and even stress
1011
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:57,200
can impede your immune system.
So it's not working as well to
1012
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,480
put out these fires like these
cascade of events that are
1013
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:06,040
happening are not.
It's not as simple as it's like
1014
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,920
that whole element we're talking
about.
1015
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,400
Everything is connected.
So if you're eating wheat, for
1016
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,920
example, and you're sensitive to
wheat, and now that wheat enters
1017
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,960
into your stomach, it should
just be processed in a normal
1018
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,680
person and then your GI tract
would work.
1019
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,920
It would that wheat protein
would never be seen by your
1020
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,760
blood.
It would never cause an antibody
1021
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,840
to be formed.
It would never cause a reaction.
1022
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,640
But now we have these chemicals
disrupting the lining of the
1023
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,600
guts, and now the lining of the
gut can potentially leak things
1024
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,360
that shouldn't be leaked into
the bloodstream.
1025
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,000
And now the bloodstream is
seeing.
1026
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,880
So you're weakening your butt,
your your your, your gut, and
1027
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,960
then think and things that your
gut supposed to naturally
1028
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,200
protect and prevent from getting
into your bloodstream are able
1029
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,720
to get through.
Yeah.
1030
00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:51,160
So your body and your body sees
them is foreign.
1031
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,680
Right.
And I bet a lot of it is
1032
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,360
foreign.
I bet like the stuff that's if
1033
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,520
you I mean I've heard.
Some of it is.
1034
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:59,800
Some of it's not like an allergy
to, you know, we shouldn't be
1035
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,640
allergic to our environment in
theory.
1036
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,880
Why are we allergic to grass?
Yeah, I mean, but we are because
1037
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,080
people's immune systems are
different, right?
1038
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,640
But there's some I, we're just
talking about 1 area where you
1039
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:16,600
can get a potential inflammation
because you brought up the
1040
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:21,080
hamburger, right?
But it sets off a cascade of
1041
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,520
many events.
If you're only eating this and
1042
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,320
it's, and it's filled with
chemicals and it's filled with
1043
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,840
something that your body is
sensitive to.
1044
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,400
Now your body is more inflamed,
whether it's your brain or your
1045
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:33,960
heart.
And now you're set up for
1046
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,640
chronic disease.
And that's, you know, in the
1047
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,880
world of longevity medicine,
it's like you try to figure out,
1048
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,200
OK, first of all, what's causing
that inflammation?
1049
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,080
How do I bring that person back
into balance?
1050
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,680
And there's so many elements
that you need to look at,
1051
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,680
whether it's, you know, the
stress in their life, what
1052
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:55,080
they're putting in their bodies.
Do they have problems with the
1053
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,880
lining of their gut?
Are they over inflamed?
1054
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,760
Is their immune system
overreactive?
1055
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,400
Are they creating fires all over
their body, which is basically
1056
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:10,000
like your car is rusting, right?
So if you have a car, I used to
1057
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,600
use this metaphor all the time
when I was giving lectures, like
1058
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,240
everyone takes their car in
religiously, right to be
1059
00:50:16,240 --> 00:50:18,960
serviced.
People don't do that for
1060
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,440
themselves, unfortunately, until
a lot of people, I shouldn't say
1061
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,680
everybody.
Some people are very proactive
1062
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:28,440
with their health, but most
people don't react until
1063
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,560
something has happened and then
they get active.
1064
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,200
Sure.
And then it's a very slippery
1065
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,760
slope, by the way, because then
once you start realizing one
1066
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,360
thing, then you start realizing,
Oh my God, it's all like you
1067
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:40,520
said, because it's all connected
it.
1068
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,400
But I feel like that actually
scares some people off because
1069
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,920
that causes it requires massive
overhaul.
1070
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,280
Well, it requires a massive
overhaul if you already have a
1071
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:54,120
disease and not not always, but
so that's why in the that's why
1072
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,840
it's good to get Someone Like
You in.
1073
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,080
So if we can get people taking
care of themselves, learning
1074
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:02,320
about this when you're younger,
how do I prevent this?
1075
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,680
How amazing would that be if you
knew what you were genetically
1076
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,760
predisposed to, if you knew, you
know, that, you know, drinking
1077
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,400
water out of plastic was bad and
you stopped doing if you learned
1078
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,320
that, OK, if I take, if I do
this, if I look at the sun in
1079
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,800
the morning and at noon and at
night, I'm going to reset my
1080
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,320
circadian rhythm.
If I start meditating, I'm going
1081
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,920
to calm my nervous system down
so I'm not always in the fight
1082
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,040
or flight mode.
I'm going to, you know, take
1083
00:51:27,240 --> 00:51:31,640
toxic chemicals out of my house.
There's so many interventions
1084
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,320
that we can do before you get
sick that would help.
1085
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:39,680
You know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, I think, I think it
1086
00:51:39,720 --> 00:51:41,680
could be wrong.
I think Peter Attia calls in
1087
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:45,720
Medicine 3.0 like the whole idea
of like it's not just treating,
1088
00:51:45,720 --> 00:51:47,960
it's like everything leading up
to that to make sure it doesn't
1089
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,920
happen.
But then when it if it does
1090
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,920
happen, we have the ability to
handle it.
1091
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,360
But don't wait for that to be
the case.
1092
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,160
Yeah.
I mean, once you're in that,
1093
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,560
once you have a disease, it's
much harder to reverse and
1094
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,760
prevent.
You know it's a it's.
1095
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,760
Yeah, yeah.
So that's what I find.
1096
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,320
So that's so go back to my dad.
That's why.
1097
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,840
That's why I'm trying to get him
now to do these kind of things.
1098
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,400
I'm like, you don't want that.
You don't want to start fighting
1099
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,120
this, It's too late.
You want to do this in advance.
1100
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:14,240
You never have to know about.
It yeah, and you know, a lot of
1101
00:52:14,240 --> 00:52:16,720
people, they don't want to
change their lives.
1102
00:52:16,720 --> 00:52:20,160
They're really comfortable in
not doing what they should be
1103
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,160
doing.
You know, it's really hard to
1104
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:25,520
change habits so that's why some
people need a shock.
1105
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,760
They need to.
Oh, you, now you go and you get
1106
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,960
blood work and Oh my God, my
cholesterol is.
1107
00:52:30,240 --> 00:52:33,320
The shock, what it could do to
people is crazy.
1108
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:36,440
It can change people.
You get diagnosed with something
1109
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,520
and that's going to motivate
you.
1110
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,560
But the question is, how do you
get motivated before that
1111
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:42,440
happens?
Right?
1112
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,000
Like for some people, it's
family.
1113
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:48,360
Yeah, well, I've got a kid who's
2 and you know how?
1114
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,960
Many weeks old, one week OK
legit.
1115
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,320
Yeah, I mean, I'm going to be
there when my kids, you know,
1116
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:55,680
get married and have.
Grandkids.
1117
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,840
That's my good friends just now.
By the way, he lost like I think
1118
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:03,720
like 115 lbs in like a year
because he went to his doctor.
1119
00:53:03,720 --> 00:53:06,280
His doctor was like, if you
want, he had his four kids under
1120
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,040
6.
I think at that point he had two
1121
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,680
and his wife was expecting right
sick.
1122
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,240
If you want to go to your kids
wedding this you got to cut the
1123
00:53:13,240 --> 00:53:16,760
shit out.
And he and he and he started
1124
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,920
exercising and he started he he
got a good amount of sunlight,
1125
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,240
but he started exercising and
being healthy.
1126
00:53:22,240 --> 00:53:24,800
Like he just, you know, like, I
think emotion, I think like
1127
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,680
eating people become like people
turn eating into activity, you
1128
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,920
know, not into, not into
something that's just required.
1129
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,680
Like it's not like putting in
gas in your car.
1130
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:39,880
It's like how can we get the
purple bubble gum flavored gas?
1131
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,600
You know, like you try to dig
into more fun experience.
1132
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,880
Yeah, and you don't want to take
that away from somebody.
1133
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,720
So like I try to always find a
compromise for people because
1134
00:53:48,720 --> 00:53:51,480
you don't want to take away
their pleasures or all of their
1135
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,400
pleasures.
And at the same time, you know,
1136
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:57,440
you want to let them know if you
continue doing the if you
1137
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,640
continue behaving this way,
you're a setup for.
1138
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,200
And then and then what?
Then you're in the medical
1139
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,120
system.
God, don't.
1140
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,320
If you can avoid being in the
medical system, you know, if you
1141
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:17,080
can avoid medications and it's,
it saves you so much time, so
1142
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,000
much money.
That's I think the cause of
1143
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,280
people.
The lead cause of bankruptcy
1144
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,640
among individual families or
family people being broke in
1145
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,840
America is medical pills.
Yeah, that's.
1146
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:27,400
Really.
Medical expenses, It's terrible.
1147
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,000
It's really, that's really
terrible.
1148
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,680
I just like there's so many
things that we can do.
1149
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,280
And The thing is that people,
it's really hard to tell
1150
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,440
somebody that if you exercise,
you're going to feel good.
1151
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,040
Especially if you have an
exercise and the first time you
1152
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,280
do it, it's really hard and you
don't feel good.
1153
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,600
The next day, you hurt and
whatever.
1154
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,360
But at some point, that switch
goes off and it starts feeling
1155
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:47,080
good.
Yeah.
1156
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,560
And you have to get that.
It's really hard to get the
1157
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,440
person to that point.
But if you can, like, with your
1158
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:56,160
dad, like, do it with him or
like, just sometimes you just
1159
00:54:56,160 --> 00:55:00,240
got to force yourself.
I tell people, hire a trainer if
1160
00:55:00,240 --> 00:55:03,320
you can afford it.
Or go to a gym, commit, you
1161
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,160
know, pay for something.
And usually people are get
1162
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,240
committed when they pay for a
gym membership.
1163
00:55:08,240 --> 00:55:10,800
I'm going to go and start small.
Yeah.
1164
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,720
You know, it's, it can be
overwhelming taking care of your
1165
00:55:14,720 --> 00:55:17,520
health and this body.
And then, you know, you've got
1166
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,920
your your home and your kids and
it's a lot.
1167
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:22,400
Yeah.
It's a lot to take in.
1168
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,160
So small steps.
Yeah.
1169
00:55:24,240 --> 00:55:25,320
Start small.
Yeah.
1170
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,360
You know, And then little by
little it grows like, like an
1171
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:30,680
investment.
It's snowballs.
1172
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,960
Yeah, it's snowballs.
I don't recognize my house now
1173
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,080
from two years ago.
I don't recognize the food in
1174
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,480
it.
I don't recognize the cleaning
1175
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:38,480
material that we use.
Oh.
1176
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:42,080
You like she saved everything.
Oh yeah, me too.
1177
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,000
I do.
I like to shop.
1178
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,680
Actually shopping for me is like
therapeutic.
1179
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,240
Even when I was in college and
I'd be like stressed out over
1180
00:55:48,240 --> 00:55:50,280
anything, I'd be like, can't go
to my mates, I'm running to the
1181
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,440
supermarket.
Like I'd run out and just walk
1182
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,680
me down the aisles, you know.
And so I do a lot of shopping
1183
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,480
now and I'm looking and today
actually, I was just going back
1184
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,120
from Trader Joe's this morning.
I'm looking at my card.
1185
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,120
I'm like, when did I turn into
this person?
1186
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,080
You know, like when did I turn
into the guy that, you know,
1187
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,040
was, you know, the in college,
all I'm putting in my cart was
1188
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:12,120
beer and like hot dogs.
And now I'm putting in like, you
1189
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,120
know, cottage cheese and like
kidwa pasta for like my wife.
1190
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:19,440
And like, what is this?
Like this is the this is a trip.
1191
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,720
This is weird, you know, but
yeah.
1192
00:56:22,720 --> 00:56:25,600
But I think, I think that the
point is that I think it's scary
1193
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,240
for a lot of people to start,
but I think it does snowball.
1194
00:56:27,240 --> 00:56:29,360
I think people do find to have
an easier time with it
1195
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,440
eventually.
And I think we do, you know,
1196
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,760
it's so funny because we, we're,
we're, you know, we commit to
1197
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:37,240
going to work every day, but we
can't like it's hard for us to
1198
00:56:37,240 --> 00:56:41,120
commit to doing exercise.
I know that work brings money.
1199
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,080
And I'm not saying that that
should be ignored, but it's
1200
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:48,120
interesting what we choose to
commit to like 100% of our time.
1201
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:53,000
And so it's really important to
understand, especially when
1202
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,480
you're young and it's easy to
think, I'm so resilient.
1203
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,200
Nothing ever going to happen to
me because you feel good.
1204
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,760
So like, why do you have to
change anything but even small
1205
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,840
changes and then setting up
those habits, Like my mom, I
1206
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:10,560
remember she started, my mom is
89 and she's in amazing shape.
1207
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,040
Amazing.
Ridiculous, really.
1208
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:13,080
Yeah.
She's so happy.
1209
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,920
She just stay in healthy shape
for a long time.
1210
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,240
She walks every day, like twice
a day.
1211
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,360
She's committed to that.
She just eats.
1212
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,680
She's not even that interested
in organic, but she's very
1213
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,080
wholesome.
She cooks all her food.
1214
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,680
She doesn't eat out a lot.
My grandfather's the same way.
1215
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,960
And he was so healthy, right?
Like simple.
1216
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,400
He he, he, yeah, he ended up he
had, he was 91.
1217
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,760
He got a stroke, unfortunately,
and he wasn't, he wasn't the
1218
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,320
same after that.
But till he was 91, living
1219
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:42,720
alone, yeah, You know, walk 3-4,
two between two and five miles a
1220
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:48,040
day, you know, into, into his
90s cooked by himself, you know,
1221
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,960
granted simple food, you know,
you get you go to the farmer's
1222
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,040
market, you get some, you get
some eggs, you get some meat,
1223
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:54,720
you get some yogurt, you get
some whatever.
1224
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:56,800
And.
Where was he?
1225
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:00,120
In New Jersey, Fairlawn, New
Jersey, yeah, yeah, yeah, You
1226
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,360
just stop at local Fairlawn and
we just.
1227
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:07,480
And and.
And he and he was sharp as a
1228
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,840
tack and he was smart and he was
healthy and he took care of the
1229
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,360
home and he cleaned every day
and.
1230
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,440
And he and like people would
meet him be like, you look
1231
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,040
better than my 6 year old dad.
You, you know, you look better
1232
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,600
than my 65 year old uncle.
Like it's crazy, you know?
1233
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,240
I I know that like my mom, she's
you're so.
1234
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,800
You, you, you came up.
You grew up in a healthy family.
1235
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,600
I really, I actually really did.
My mom is from Europe and so and
1236
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:36,200
she grew up on a Hungary.
Yes, so and she grew up like
1237
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,640
part of her, she also went
through the Holocaust.
1238
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:42,680
So she, but she grew up on a
farm and so she's very back to
1239
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,560
the earth, organic in living,
like she believed, like when we
1240
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,680
were sick, she'd put us in a
stroller.
1241
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,640
You got to get fresh air.
You got to get fresh air, you
1242
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,640
know, like you got.
It so it's really so I'm going
1243
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:55,520
to like grandfather.
Such a European attitude.
1244
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,840
But it's she's stoic.
I mean, she's and she loves to
1245
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,520
clean, I think because she likes
movement.
1246
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,840
She knows that, you know, we
don't, we don't do a lot of
1247
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,080
these things.
You know, we are eating packaged
1248
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,160
foods.
We're not cleaning.
1249
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:08,000
We're not.
Cleaning.
1250
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,200
Cleaning is such a simple thing
and it feels so good.
1251
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:12,840
I.
Know I mean I hate to say it, I
1252
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:16,200
I loved having someone clean my
house, but the same time now I
1253
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,560
when I clean I put weights on.
Doesn't need to be deep clean by
1254
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,120
the way, like, you know, like I
couldn't like my wife like maybe
1255
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,000
once every couple of months
we'll hire just like someone to
1256
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,120
do a clean like a deep clean.
Yeah, but I do just wipe down
1257
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,680
counters vacuum fault laundry
and like he just like again just
1258
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,400
to move it.
You feel great.
1259
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,240
You feel a lot.
You feel like you're like.
1260
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,280
Right, but try, I mean try to
convince people that cleaning
1261
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:41,280
is.
I think you.
1262
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,080
Could.
Yeah, I think you got to, you
1263
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:44,720
know, you got to get the right
people to do it.
1264
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,040
I think I know you do.
You got to get people that
1265
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,120
people look up to.
And it's like, because I think
1266
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,720
it's all associations, right?
It's all like people like
1267
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:57,560
associate wiping down counters
and vacuuming with like a grumpy
1268
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:00,320
old woman in ATV in a, in a
movie or Cinderella or something
1269
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,000
like that, you know?
You know what I like about
1270
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,120
cleaning it?
There's a beginning, there's a
1271
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,520
middle, and there's an end.
Not I'm not talking about
1272
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,280
cleaning out your closets.
I'm like the floor.
1273
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,880
Like if I take on the task of a
floor, it's so pleasurable to
1274
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,680
like, you know, literally have
an ending.
1275
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,640
Like a lot of life doesn't have
an ending.
1276
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:19,440
And that's what makes it
stressful is you don't know
1277
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,920
where it's falling.
It's such a great, it's such, I
1278
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,240
never noticed it, but you're
correct.
1279
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,200
Because when you're done and you
look around and it's like you
1280
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,440
feel like you're in a different.
Room you did it you clean the
1281
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,600
floor I mean a basic task and
then I told you I started
1282
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:35,120
wearing weights when I clean and
bands on my legs because I my.
1283
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,160
Mom does that.
And I'm like, this is, this is
1284
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,640
great.
Like I'm sweating, I'm
1285
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:43,080
exercising now.
My cleaning has like many
1286
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,560
purposes.
Yeah, Yeah.
1287
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,800
I actually really, I look
forward to it because I know I'm
1288
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,520
getting a lot, but I, you know,
I understand people are busy
1289
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,000
and.
I don't know.
1290
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:53,320
I think it's good for you.
I think that.
1291
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,120
I don't think it's a bad thing
to say that.
1292
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,560
I think it's part of the.
I think responsibility and
1293
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,240
meaning and happiness all go
hand in hand.
1294
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:09,920
And I think that choosing to
take on even simple things adds
1295
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:12,160
to your sense of responsibility,
which adds to your sense of
1296
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,200
meaning and happiness, which
ultimately helps you know, And
1297
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,040
it might be a little thing and
you're like, OK, poo poo.
1298
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,720
But like, you do it.
You feel like a better human
1299
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,480
being.
You know, you know, it's also
1300
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,560
like we've gotten away from that
organic type of living because
1301
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,520
we, a lot of us do, you know, we
work so much.
1302
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:31,520
We're in offices, we're in
closed spaces.
1303
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,120
Some people are really isolated,
very different than what our
1304
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:39,080
ancestors did, you know?
And I think, like my, I always
1305
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,760
think, how do I get back to the
basics?
1306
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,480
Like, really like finding
pleasure in the smallest of
1307
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,640
things because if you don't look
for them, you don't find them.
1308
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,280
Yeah.
And then your life, you know,
1309
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,440
you have to think what, you
know, everyone's saying, what
1310
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,960
are you grateful for?
Like some people have nothing on
1311
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:57,720
their list, so you got to find
the littlest of things, right?
1312
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,600
Like to start, you have to start
somewhere.
1313
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,200
Like whether it's your diet or
your gratitude journal or your
1314
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:06,320
meditation or your prayer like
or your breathing like just
1315
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,560
start.
And The thing is you're never
1316
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,560
going to be ready.
You cannot wait until you're
1317
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,760
ready, because if you wait till
you're ready, I'm.
1318
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:15,440
So happy it's coming from you
and not me.
1319
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,560
But that's how.
I agree with.
1320
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,520
You, I mean, these are your
thoughts, I have to say every
1321
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:24,360
day like you have to know, get
up and just do it because you're
1322
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:28,040
not going to be ready to start
that project ever because you're
1323
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:33,200
I'm, I'm I, I would say I'm kind
of type A, you have to be kind
1324
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,840
of to get through Med school.
And so unless it's perfect, I
1325
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,080
don't proceed.
And so I'm trying to retrain my
1326
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,120
brain.
Actually, I'm doing I'm learning
1327
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,040
a lot about neuroplasticity,
which is amazing.
1328
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,840
I love it because up until now
I've been in that, you know, in
1329
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,160
my personal life, working on my
spirituality and I put that in
1330
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:55,200
quotation marks.
And now I'm, I'm also using my
1331
01:02:55,200 --> 01:03:00,280
neuroplastic brain to help me.
So it's not just about
1332
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,280
spirituality.
It's like I want to change those
1333
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,880
pathways that, you know, I've
been doing this for a long time
1334
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,120
and I don't like this habit.
So how do I change?
1335
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,640
It yeah.
So what do you so so I what are
1336
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,800
some things that you do to do
that?
1337
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:14,760
So.
So first of all, you.
1338
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:18,760
What is actually first, define
neuroplasticity in case sorry
1339
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,080
just yeah, because I'm familiar
with it.
1340
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,040
I want to make sure that.
Well, so the brain has the
1341
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,640
ability to constantly create new
neural pathways.
1342
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:30,440
So like who you are today, if
you don't like a certain element
1343
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,360
of how you think or how you are,
you can actually change that.
1344
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,360
And I actually remind all my
patients, like, just remember
1345
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,280
the body wants to heal.
Like whatever it's doing,
1346
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:44,240
whether it's inflammation or, or
even other things that chronic
1347
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:48,320
diseases, a lot of it, your body
really doesn't want to be sick.
1348
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,040
Your body is moving towards
healing.
1349
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:54,320
Your brain is not just this
organ that's sitting there and
1350
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,600
it's not changing.
It's changing all the time.
1351
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:02,280
So you have the ability to
change the way you, you think in
1352
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,640
your daily life.
If you've been doing, if you've
1353
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,720
been taking the same path to
work every single day, that path
1354
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,360
is ingrained, right?
And it gets deeper and deeper
1355
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:11,400
and deeper.
Imagine that.
1356
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:16,160
And then over time you could put
planks because it's so deep,
1357
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:17,760
it's muddy.
You put planks and you make it
1358
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:22,120
even more solid, right?
And that's where, you know,
1359
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:25,640
chemicals start to get secreted
in your brain.
1360
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,840
And that path is really well
defined.
1361
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:29,960
OK, I want to go on a different
path.
1362
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,680
So now how do you do that?
How do I create new neural
1363
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,440
pathway?
So I want to change.
1364
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:40,200
So first of all you have to try
something different, you have to
1365
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,480
think differently and you have
to try something different.
1366
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,800
So when I say like, you don't.
Do a big thing or could be a
1367
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:46,440
little.
No, really small.
1368
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,840
They can watch for example.
So let's say saves.
1369
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:50,720
Me let's.
Afternoon, let's say.
1370
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,880
Wait, let's think about, you
know, let's say you you think
1371
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,840
poorly about yourself, for
example, OK, I'm not good
1372
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:57,880
enough.
I'm not good enough.
1373
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,800
OK, you were born, your parents
would say you're not good
1374
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,280
enough.
You grew up thinking I'm not
1375
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,560
good enough.
Now that pathway is pretty set
1376
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:06,560
in the brain.
So everything that hits you in
1377
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,080
life says I'm not good enough.
I can't do this, right.
1378
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:11,560
OK, so now I want to change
that.
1379
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:16,720
So there have been studies that
show that the first thing, one
1380
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,600
of the first things that you can
do is like, you can cheer
1381
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,840
yourself on like a coach and
say, no, you can do this.
1382
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:25,200
I started doing it when I jog.
Do you I?
1383
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,080
Did it when I jog Yeah, that's
even more, especially when I was
1384
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,520
my parents if you.
Have movement and a thought
1385
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,440
that's even more powerful and
creating neuroplastics like
1386
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:34,920
changes in your brain.
One of the, when I, I, I used
1387
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:40,640
to, I grew up in upstate New
York in Rockland County and, and
1388
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,520
it's very hilly there.
And I, you know, I started, I
1389
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:46,720
started jogging just after
college and, and I was, you
1390
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,480
know, I'd take on these huge
hills and then I would say to
1391
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,240
myself while I'm doing it, like
you have you got this?
1392
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,640
You got, I'd say it out loud.
I'd hear it over my music on my
1393
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,640
headphones while I'm driving up.
Like you got this.
1394
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,160
The only thing stopping you is
you.
1395
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:00,240
The only thing stopping you is
you.
1396
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:01,800
You got this, you got this, you
got this.
1397
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:05,480
And I would get, I'd even feel
like a little pick me up.
1398
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,880
Like I feel like my almost like
my legs are like almost like a
1399
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:12,520
little like pick up and didn't
magically change my performance,
1400
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,560
you know, 100%.
But it takes time.
1401
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,680
Yeah, but it definitely, Yeah,
overtime for sure, for sure, for
1402
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,920
sure.
And even saying the like, what
1403
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:21,880
did you say the only?
The only thing stopping me is
1404
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:22,400
me.
Right.
1405
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,240
So even that has a little
negative connotation.
1406
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,280
So if you made that more
positive, like, listen, you,
1407
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:33,040
you've done this before in your
life, you've overcome other
1408
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,560
situations, like think about
something that you've overcome,
1409
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:39,400
then you go, you can do this.
I did that just now, actually
1410
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:42,840
with my I had a fall on panic
attack before my son was born.
1411
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,960
I wasn't ready to be a dad.
Yeah.
1412
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:46,720
I don't know what I don't know.
I'm ready.
1413
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:47,920
I don't know what it means to
you already.
1414
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:48,920
I don't know.
Oh, my God.
1415
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:51,080
And like, I'm afraid, you know,
the doctor goes, OK, it's time.
1416
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,080
I'm like, I'm not ready to like,
we're not asking you like.
1417
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,680
And then this time I was about
to, you know, I felt that a
1418
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:59,280
similar sensation.
And I said to myself, what are
1419
01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:01,520
you nervous?
You're not going to be ready.
1420
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:05,040
But you've already done this
with a kid.
1421
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:06,680
Like I'm not going to.
I know.
1422
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,080
OK.
So like, think about what?
1423
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:09,840
I'm nervous.
I'm nervous about the fact that
1424
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:11,360
it's going to be uncomfortable
with my wife is.
1425
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:13,320
I'm nervous because I don't want
to look anywhere near that while
1426
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,040
it's happening.
I'm nervous because, you know,
1427
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:17,920
I'm not going to sleep for the
first couple of months.
1428
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,560
You did that already.
What are you so nervous about?
1429
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,120
You did that already.
You know, I actually had to
1430
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:26,680
write that down to myself.
And when it came time, it was
1431
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:29,760
the calmest I've ever It was
such a calm birth.
1432
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,400
It was such a calm experience.
Because you could have gone down
1433
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,400
the path of.
Being I felt starting, I really
1434
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,240
felt the starting and my wife
and I talked about it.
1435
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,520
I was like, I'm getting nervous.
I'm getting.
1436
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:41,640
You created new neural pathways.
That's neuroplasticity.
1437
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,280
That's neuroplasticity.
Yeah, because you could have
1438
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:48,600
easily just stayed in that panic
mode and up until the birth been
1439
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:52,080
in panic mode and after the
birth been in panic mode and
1440
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:53,720
you're not.
So something changed.
1441
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:55,680
Yeah.
So you took a you took a
1442
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:58,600
thought, you took a process in
your body that says I'm not
1443
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,320
going to be ready.
I, you know, whatever negativity
1444
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,000
you had and you made it
something different, that's a
1445
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,320
different part of your brain
when you take that.
1446
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,120
Right thought.
I mean unexplored territories.
1447
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,840
It's positive.
It's part of.
1448
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:14,880
Your brain that's you've
accessed a different part of
1449
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,200
your brain.
Now you have to nourish that
1450
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:20,080
path, right?
Because that path is new.
1451
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,240
So it's not just enough to have
it, I have to make sure that I'm
1452
01:08:24,279 --> 01:08:25,840
tending.
To now you have to nourish it.
1453
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,760
Yeah.
And you have to make it hard
1454
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:29,399
wired, Right.
Right.
1455
01:08:29,399 --> 01:08:31,720
Because it's still fresh, right?
Like a path.
1456
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:35,160
If you walk through grass and
it's like the first time you
1457
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,319
walk, you may not look back and
see there's a path.
1458
01:08:38,319 --> 01:08:41,680
But if you walk it 100 times,
now all of a sudden, oh, I see
1459
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:46,479
that path is worn.
So now you work on that thought
1460
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,160
process.
The next time you have a panic
1461
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,560
attack, hopefully you won't.
But if you do, you go.
1462
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,520
No, I've been here.
I know what this is.
1463
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:56,840
I know what to do.
I've got this.
1464
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,359
I don't need to go here.
I've got this.
1465
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:02,479
I know exactly what this is.
And actually you can ask
1466
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:05,319
yourself, like, you know, did it
serve me?
1467
01:09:06,359 --> 01:09:08,279
That's a great question too.
Did it serve me?
1468
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:12,439
Right, because a lot of times
your body, the reason you went
1469
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:16,080
into that panic mode is because
you had an experience it usually
1470
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,200
you know, something brought you
to that, you think you've had it
1471
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:21,600
before.
So you have to think, did that,
1472
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:25,160
Did it serve me to have that?
And usually it's did it.
1473
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,200
Yeah.
Did it help you?
1474
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,800
No, right?
Never.
1475
01:09:30,319 --> 01:09:33,399
Never.
Well, actually the only time
1476
01:09:33,399 --> 01:09:35,960
that I think it might have is
when it comes to being able to
1477
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:38,399
relate to other people.
Having a panic attack.
1478
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,800
Meaning to be able to say, I
know that you've been like, I
1479
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,760
know what you're going through
empathy, empathy.
1480
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,800
It helps my it helps enormously
with empathy.
1481
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:45,640
Yeah.
Well, that's good.
1482
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:49,439
That's I, I, you know, I
understand where you're going
1483
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,479
through right?
And I, I also, you know, I too
1484
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:56,000
have had these concerns, these
fears, these insecurities and
1485
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:59,320
I'm, I, I've been where, you
know, I have stood in the same
1486
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,160
pair of shoes already.
You know, you're going to be
1487
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,760
fine and like, or, or, you know,
or whatever.
1488
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,160
I know it doesn't feel like it,
but you're going to, you're not
1489
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,000
going to not figure it out, you
know, so.
1490
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,000
Yeah, that's true.
I mean, I actually, I, I so
1491
01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:13,480
relate to that because so many
times things happen in my life
1492
01:10:13,480 --> 01:10:15,560
and I'm like, wait a second, I
didn't sign up for this.
1493
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:19,120
Why isn't that this, this
doesn't really fit.
1494
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:21,440
And then I'll have a patient
come in.
1495
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,760
Oh, no way.
Yeah, or it may not be right
1496
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:27,680
away.
Yeah, maybe a while later and I
1497
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:32,080
go, oh, I know what you're going
through and I can, I can help
1498
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,800
you move through this.
So there's always value if you
1499
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:38,440
can see the value in it, it
changes your perspective.
1500
01:10:38,440 --> 01:10:41,040
And once you change your
perspective, you create a new
1501
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:43,560
neural pathway that's part of
neural.
1502
01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:46,280
So you're.
So you're working actively on
1503
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:48,720
your neuroplasticity now or
you're you're OK?
1504
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,280
Gotcha.
So what is the reason what
1505
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,720
you're working?
On so right now I'm I'm doing
1506
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:58,400
this experiment with normally I
used to myself talk was I OK OK
1507
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:03,680
like I am what whatever I'm
capable, I am powerful whatever
1508
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:07,360
that's a lot of the self talk
and I realized there's been some
1509
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:11,480
studies that show that the more
powerful way to do it is like
1510
01:11:11,480 --> 01:11:15,000
coaching yourself as if.
You as opposed to I.
1511
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:19,360
You interesting as a powerful
game changer when it comes to
1512
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:23,280
neuroplasticity is kind of
coaching yourself.
1513
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,840
So I, I now I put myself in it
because a lot of times, even
1514
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:30,120
when I'm talking to sometimes
you know, you have friends,
1515
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,320
you're going through something
and they can't hear what you're
1516
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:33,960
saying.
Even when I'm going through
1517
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,320
something, sometimes you just
can't hear.
1518
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:39,000
So I say, what would you say to
a friend, your bestie, if your
1519
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,920
bestie was going through this?
What would you tell them?
1520
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:45,000
Now do that to yourself.
It's the hardest thing to do.
1521
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,000
It's really hard.
I had to do that for a breakup
1522
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,360
one time when I was in college.
More than one, believe me, more
1523
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:50,760
than once.
But I've been in college with a
1524
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:54,160
really long relationship with 2
1/2, two years, two years plus
1525
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,200
my entire college experience
while I was there because I
1526
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,880
transferred it.
And I was in this relationship.
1527
01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:01,960
I remember thinking to myself,
like, if my friend came up to me
1528
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,000
and told me this whole story and
asked me what I would do, what
1529
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:05,680
would you do?
Yeah.
1530
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:10,400
And I was like, I don't want to,
I don't want, I don't want to
1531
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,840
tell them that, you know, but it
comes to you, you know.
1532
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,760
Then how would you coach them?
How would you coach them out of
1533
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,520
it, right?
Like you really have to set
1534
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:20,320
yourself aside.
Like you're going through a
1535
01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,000
breakup and you'd say, hey,
dude, you got this.
1536
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,000
Like there's going to be other
women.
1537
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:28,200
You're going to be fine like.
That studies observed that the I
1538
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,520
versus you because I, I, I, I
did notice that I, I refer to
1539
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:33,160
myself as you.
That's.
1540
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,400
Good.
Yeah, but I don't know why.
1541
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,040
It just kind of felt better.
Maybe you watched a Seinfeld
1542
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:38,720
episode?
Probably.
1543
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:43,240
I love, I love Seinfeld.
Timmy.
1544
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:47,240
Here's a Timmy, right?
Timmy fell.
1545
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:48,080
Timmy's in vain.
Yeah.
1546
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:51,480
Don't do this in public.
This is all about your head.
1547
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:56,040
Everyone is going to do this
vodka inside your head, not in
1548
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:57,760
pelvic.
You do not refer to yourself in
1549
01:12:57,760 --> 01:12:59,080
3rd.
First, yes, correct.
1550
01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:00,840
Correct.
Unless you're in Seinfeld and
1551
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,240
then you're OK, then yeah.
That's there's a camera on here
1552
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:05,920
Yeah, hilarious.
But yeah, they show.
1553
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:09,560
So I'm experimenting with that
because a lot of teachers in the
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self help world are, are
focusing on the eye and you
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know, I'm so I'm experimenting
with that.
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And I know with neuroplasticity,
it's also in when you do
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exercise, when you have so
movement allows more blood flow
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01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:28,000
to to the brain anyway.
So you know, before you want to
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01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:32,120
study or before you give a talk
or something where you need full
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01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:34,720
blown brain capacity, it's good
to do some exercise because it
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gets the blood flowing to the
brain.
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01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:38,200
Those 60,000 miles get active,
right?
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But if you pair it with
exercise, so you change, you
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01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:47,600
have to change the way you
think, which is not easy, but
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it's practice like anything
else.
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01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,520
And now we're going to talk in
third person and we're going to
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01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,480
coach ourselves.
You know, we're going to say you
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01:13:53,480 --> 01:13:57,080
can, you got this girl, you got
this, you've done this.
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So it's important.
To do this, why?
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But it's it's extra, extra
reinforcement if you're doing it
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while you're exercising or while
you're moving.
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I'm taking two studies in
neuroplasticity where, you know,
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they say when you exercise, if
you crossover like you, if
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you're doing that, you're
thinking at the same time.
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And what that does is it creates
a lot of neuronal response in
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your brain.
So it's good.
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01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:21,640
I teach my patients with
dementia or Alzheimer's, like
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when they're sorry or when they
feel you have memory loss.
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One of the exercises that I tell
them to do is crossover when
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while you're exercising across
your body, like across the
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midline.
Interesting.
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Why are you doing any kind of
exercise?
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Well, just at least some of your
exercise should incorporate
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cross interesting.
Why that if you're because it
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01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,640
it, it enhances brain activity.
So now you've added a different
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element.
Oh, interesting.
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01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,560
So if you're just doing up and
down, it doesn't have as much
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brain activity as now if you're
going across Oh, it's so
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interesting.
You add a conversation.
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So if you're out with your
girlfriends or your guy friends
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01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,320
and you're walking and you're
talking and you're thinking
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that's that's adding more brain
activity.
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01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:07,040
Yeah.
So I'm combining all of these on
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my own thinking.
Well, I don't think there's a
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study.
I'm thinking it up on my.
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I love it, I love it.
I'm going to exercise and I'm
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going to crossover.
I'm going to make sure I do
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cross the midline on my body and
I'm going to do this type of
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thinking.
I'm going to coach myself, yeah,
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and I'll let you know what
happened.
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01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,800
I want to know.
I want to know, You know, Steve
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01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,920
Jobs used to do all his business
meetings on walks.
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01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,240
He wouldn't do them in office
great idea.
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01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:33,640
You know you know your most
intense conversation, big
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01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,240
corporate merger or whatever it
is love that go for a walk.
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01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:37,720
That's what he would say every
single time.
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Let's go for a walk and they
take a 45 minute hour long walk
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while they were.
I love it.
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01:15:42,440 --> 01:15:43,920
Yeah.
I think fun of me at work
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01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:47,280
because I'm always ex moving.
Yeah, I wouldn't say exercising,
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but I always have a stand up
desk.
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01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:51,160
I have a bouncing ball.
Amazing desk.
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01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,240
And yeah, it looks weird.
I mean, people make fun of God.
1614
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,920
It shows life, it shows
enthusiasm, it shows life.
1615
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:58,280
It shows.
It shows that you're vital.
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01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:01,680
It keeps vitality.
It's better than sitting at a
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01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:03,360
desk all day, you know what I
mean?
1618
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,680
If I'm going to have to stare at
a computer, I want to be moving
1619
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,360
at the same time.
I want I want something
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01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:09,600
productive to come physically
health.
1621
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:13,080
Wise, Yeah, yeah, definitely I
have to run this.
1622
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,400
I'm so sad that I have to run
too because I feel like we
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01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:18,160
didn't.
I feel like we're just, I feel
1624
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:22,440
like we're 5 minutes in.
So I hope we'll do Part 2.
1625
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:26,240
You can do it soon or hopefully
in many parts, as you know, as
1626
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:29,000
the podcast keeps on going and
as you keep on learning and
1627
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,120
growing.
But this is so much fun.
1628
01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:37,200
We barely, you barely skim the,
you know, we barely skim the
1629
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:39,520
big, the the bucket.
Yeah, exactly.
1630
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:41,720
So I hope we can do another,
another podcast soon.
1631
01:16:42,440 --> 01:16:44,160
But this is so much fun.
Thank you so much for taking the
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01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:44,480
time.
Thank.
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01:16:44,480 --> 01:16:46,320
You so much.
I'll talk to you.
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01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:47,200
Thank you so much.
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Welcome to another episode of
come together
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the phone speaker when we're
live doctor live hello there we
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go we're live welcome thank you
so much for doing this thanks
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for having me in your beautiful
home I appreciate it having.
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You I'm excited so.
Tell me a little bit about
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yourself.
Tell me who you are, where you
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mentioned that you're from
Montreal originally and what do
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you, what do you do?
It sounds.
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Yeah, I have a lot in my little
tool.
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My little toolbox is quite full.
So I'm a medical doctor and I'm
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trained in family medicine.
But before I went to Med school,
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I actually went to India.
And I think that set the stage
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of my career path because when I
went to India, I got exposed to
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meditation and yoga and food is
medicine things at the time.
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I mean, now it's popularized,
everybody's talking about it,
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everybody knows about it.
But 30 years ago, 35 years ago,
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it was sort of the unknown.
You know, a guru was something
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weird.
And I got exposed to all that.
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And then I went to medical
school.
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So I had that already implanted
in me that, you know, meditation
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is really important.
Lifestyle is really important.
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What you eat is going to affect
how you feel.
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And it can also be medicinal.
So that changed the course of my
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career.
I went into family medicine and
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I did a residency and I was
actually looking for an
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opportunity after that to do
something innovative.
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And I ended up being the first
MD to work at a functional
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medicine lab.
What is that?
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What is?
What is the functional medicine?
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Abdu, would you like a minute?
Good.
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OK, yeah.
But if you want be there, yeah,
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so functional.
Medicine.
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So functional medicine, which is
now, you know, a really big
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field in medicine at the time it
was sort of unknown and really
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it's root cause medicine.
So in regular medicine, what I
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learned in all of my training
was people came to you sick and
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you treated them and in with a
probably a medication is more
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like, most likely the outcome is
you're going to be put on a
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medication.
Yeah.
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And in functional medicine is
like, how did you get here?
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What led to this?
What in your lifestyle, in your
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gut, in your microbiome?
Yeah, in your environment?
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Yeah.
Led to getting a disease.
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And can we reverse that?
And how do we do that?
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And that's fascinating.
So that's you were the first.
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And D to work at this company
used to be called Great Smokies
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Diagnostic Labs, and now it's
Genova.
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And I was basically going out
and educating other physicians
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and chiropractors about this
kind of medicine, like why
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essential fatty acids are
relevant to your health.
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And they're not learning that in
Med school.
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So at that time, no, I mean,
even today, they're not really
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learning.
So it's kind of ironic.
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It's great.
So so OK, OK, this is an amazing
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place to start 'cause I'm gonna
go back.
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This is a perfectly.
I just got started.
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I love it.
I.
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Know I'm so.
Excited.
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No, I haven't even gotten.
To so I know, but I I I this is
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considered as a combination of
like a class and a personal
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personal bio, right?
How'd you get to India?
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What were you doing in India
All?
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Right.
Well, so I kind of felt a little
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lost in my life.
Like internally, yeah, I mean,
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everything was going fine on the
outside, but internally I felt
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like something is happening that
I'm not aware of.
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Like I need to, I need to tell
you.
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Interested.
So I was 19.
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OK, Gotcha.
Cool.
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And I read this book.
It was called The Snow Leopard,
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and I think it was by
Matthiessen.
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And he went to Nepal to look for
the snow leopard.
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And he went trekking in the
mountains and Apurna and he
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never found the snow leopard.
But he found himself like he
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discovered more about himself.
He.
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You know, and I thought, that's
for me.
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I need to find out who I am,
what this is What what is this
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life thing all about?
On a really deep level.
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Yeah.
And so I decided to take a year
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off.
I'd been to McGill.
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I did my undergrad.
So I had AI was applying into
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Med school.
Actually, I was trying to decide
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do I go to Yeah, Well, I made an
in between.
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There usually is no in between.
You know, you just go from
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school to school to school to
school and then you become a
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doctor or whatever.
I needed an in between.
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And so I took AI took a time off
and I said he's going to go to
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India.
Of course, my my parents were
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just crazed.
I mean, there's a with your
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life.
You're wasting your life.
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Oh man, sure, sure.
And, you know, I was 19 and at
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19, you don't care.
You could do anything, right?
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You're really powerful.
It's funny how you're you feel
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so strong even though you're so
you don't know anything, which
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makes you.
But it didn't matter.
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I didn't know that at the time.
I'm like, I'm just going to go
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to India.
Yeah.
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And before I left, it was really
interesting because I kept
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meeting these people who guided
me towards this ashram in India.
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They I kept meeting these people
who are like, yeah, I've been to
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this place and you got to go
there.
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So in my back pocket I had, you
know, a name of somebody that I
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was a place I was going to go in
India.
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So I left.
I was going to go for a year.
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I was going to travel the world.
I was going.
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To was it like, what was it when
you got there and you were like,
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was it a whole, were you just
like when you got there?
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Was it, Oh my God, can I handle
this?
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And this is so exciting.
Or like, what was your initial
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reaction?
To that, you know, I had already
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been to Africa.
I went a year before I went to
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Africa and had like a wild
experience there where, you
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know, I was 17 and thrown into
like an adult position where I
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was actually working in a
safari, like just crazy kind of
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stuff.
So I had already even.
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Already the culture.
Shocks, Third world country,
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Yeah.
But India is unique.
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I mean, it is, you know, you
land in Delhi at the time it was
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it was like just hundreds of
people on the streets and
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incense burning and odd smells
and people grabbing at you and
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there's a lot of beggars on the
street.
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It was it was really
overwhelming.
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But I was so excited, yeah.
Because I was going to find
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myself, right?
Like, I was going to find out
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who I was.
And, and actually, before I
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left, I applied to medical
school, OK, which gave my
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parents a little sense of peace.
Like, hey, at least he's got,
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you know, some brain cells that
are still working.
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And then I jumped in and went to
India.
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And then I, you know, went to
visit where the Dalai Lama
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lived.
And I started learning about
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meditation and Buddhism.
And I'm like, wow, this is
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really cool.
And then I ended up going to the
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place that everyone told me I
needed to go.
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And I literally showed up there
and I saw all these, I mean, I'm
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going to say white people, like
Americans walking down the
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street with these shawls, like
these typical Indian shawls.
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And I thought I must be at the
right place, but I couldn't find
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the ashram because it was
hidden.
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And I was there for three days.
I was staying in AI mean I was
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living on $5 a day.
So I was staying in a really
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nasty place.
And I after the third day of bed
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bugs, I'm like, I'm out of here.
I don't know what people are
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talking about.
And I was walking down the
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street and coming out of the car
was this man with a beard.
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And he was he smelled beautiful.
He looked beautiful.
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And he's like, come with me.
And that was the beginning of my
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stay in this Austria in India.
So you're about to leave.
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I was about to leave.
I gave up.
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I'm like, this is not happening.
Yeah.
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Yeah.
And you know.
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So what do you learn?
What do you teach?
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How to start?
Was it formal classes?
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Was it one-on-one?
No, it was so organic.
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I mean, literally the reason I
couldn't find the place is
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because it there's no signage or
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It was just a whole bunch of
people sitting around
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meditating, talking about
spirituality.
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And that's how it was every day.
There was like two or three
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meditation sense sessions per
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And then with the, with the
guru, they could be anywhere
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from 20 minutes to like 5 hours
it depending on what the guru
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wanted to do in that moment.
And it was completely
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unpredictable.
And I, I really think the reason
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that happened that way was
because to teach us about, you
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know, life is not predictable.
Yeah, it doesn't come in a slot.
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And when you're meditating, you
think, oh, it's supposed to go
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this way.
And one of the things I learned
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is meditation goes the way it
goes.
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You don't judge it.
You know, that's what prevents a
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lot of people from meditating is
they think I can't because my
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mind is racing.
And then what I learned is that,
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yes, your mind is racing.
Everybody's mind is racing.
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You just sit.
You just sit through it and you
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watch.
You just watch.
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You just.
Do you try to shift yourself to
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the mindset of like, almost like
observing your own mind, you
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know, like?
It's exactly what it is.
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You're basically sitting.
There, you're still watching.
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You're thinking, Yeah.
Yeah, well, you're not curious
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in, in, in this type of
meditation.
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There's no, it's just observing
and knowing that the thoughts
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are like the wave of the ocean.
They come and they go.
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And where are you in all of
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Yeah, you're just, you're the
witness.
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You're just watching.
When I started carrying a little
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notebook around, a tiny little
notebook, it's in the car
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actually.
And it's literally just for when
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these little sparks of thoughts
that like I don't want to lose
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become like flashing forward.
Like when they come forward, I'm
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like, OK, just quickly get that,
get that down.
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And like, yeah.
And it's caused me to spend more
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time aware of my thoughts.
And then the more you're aware
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of them, I feel like the more
I've been able to follow them,
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you know, like, you know, I, I
feel like, almost like imagine
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if it's a movie set, right?
And it's all, it's all dark and
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it's Seattle.
So it's all, you know, it's all
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misty and you see a shape in the
back and you're like, you can
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either.
And like you kind of tell the
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outside of it what it looks
like.
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You like you want to kind of go
like see where, what it looks
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like in the light.
And you start like walking with
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it past and you, and you find,
oh, right, that's what it is.
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So like, I think a lot of people
have a lot of thoughts or
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experiences that they vaguely
recognize and they kind of just
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come and go and we don't give
them a lot of attention.
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But like, if you just follow
those thoughts down a little
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bit, then like they become a lot
more clear and then you start to
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know yourself more, you know
yourself a little better.
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It sounds like you're talking a
little bit about intuition too.
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OK.
Right.
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Like you, you have, you know,
there's, there's a fine line
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between intuition, like you're
feeling something and that, I
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mean, thoughts are coming and
going all the time.
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Yeah.
And some are positive, some are
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negative, Right.
You know.
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And so I think that the idea of
meditation is to understand, you
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know, I am not those thoughts.
Oh, you're not.
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No.
OK.
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I'm just the witness of those
thoughts.
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Incident.
What are you?
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Well, your space, you're like
you're, you're connecting to the
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energy of your being rather than
the thoughts.
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And So what happens is, for
example, if you're a kind of
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person who has a lot of
negativity in their life, it's
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very powerful because you
realize, wait, I don't have to
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identify with every single
thought that comes into my head.
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That is not truth.
That is not fact.
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They're just thoughts.
Oh, interesting, gotcha.
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We think we're our thoughts, but
we're not.
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We identify with every single
thought and it makes us crazy
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because it's just come.
It's the incoming is constant.
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So for not everybody is like
this.
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Not everybody has a wild crazy
mind, but they call it the
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monkey mind because it's always
working.
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It's trying to attach, it's
trying to do.
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It's like all these thoughts
coming in, if you paid attention
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to all these thoughts, you would
be running your back and forth
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circles.
But if you took a step back and
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said, wait, I'm not these
thoughts, who am I?
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And that's the point of
meditation.
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Like who are you really?
So are you your experiences are
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you your actions?
Are you your relationships?
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Are you your?
According to Yeah, yeah, yeah,
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yeah, I'm in my life, Yeah,
yeah, no, you're none of that.
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So what then?
What are so you're?
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You're trying to attack, you're
trying to recognize that beam of
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light, that essence that came
into, you know, some people
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would call it your soul.
Yeah, right.
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This ethereal essence, if you
are not the body.
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So they would describe it like
you're this, you're this
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essence, you're this light.
And then you land in this body
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and you become Ephron, you
become Allison.
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And the minute you do that, you
become identified as that.
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And then your whole life you
build on that identity.
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But for some people, that
doesn't lead them into a very
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positive place or it just you're
not finding that sense of peace
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that you want in your life
because if you're always seeking
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from the outside, if you're
seeking your happiness from the
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outside, from your spots, Yeah.
Good luck.
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Right.
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I guess your thoughts are you're
processing what's going on
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around you as opposed to coming
from within?
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Listen, if you know who you are,
like there are certain people
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that you meet and they're just
standing, they're standing in
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their essence, like they, they
know who they are.
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They don't need a degree.
They don't need to be told that
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they're that they're doing
wonderful things that, that,
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that they're amazing.
They just know.
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Yes.
And it's not from an ego
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standpoint.
They just know they have a
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confidence, they have a sense of
peace, a sense of calm, right?
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I think most people are looking
for a sense of calm, a sense of
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peace in their life.
And this meditation was a way to
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find that.
So eloquently and I think we
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need I think so many people look
at that.
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Oh, I've so many and you know,
it's fun.
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I think people I think you had
when you were younger and I
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think as you like learn to, I
think as you learn like the
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dance that is relationships in
the world and like life and
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teachers and like, you know,
boyfriends, girlfriends,
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everything.
Like you have to adjust to so
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many external forces that you
kind of lose track of yourself.
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And I think a lot of people and
then it becomes either scary to
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try to like be alone to, to
realize that you don't know who
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you are.
And that's what scares a lot of
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people.
And then there's the experience
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of if I find out, if I find out
who I am and I can't be myself
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homeless, like, you know, I
would say hypothetically for
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myself and not hypothetically,
but you know, for example, with
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myself, I don't, I don't feel
like I'm a salesman.
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I'm not a salesman.
It's not like my essence, you
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know, my essence, I said to all
I'm thinking about is like a
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sharer is like someone that like
relationships and sharing like
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that's, that's I never feel
more, I never feel more
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authentic and like I'm
fulfilling my potential and my
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purpose than when I'm doing
those type of things.
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And then it rejuvenates me and
it enhances every aspect of my
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life, you know, and actually
brings everything else that I do
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makes it better and more fun and
more meaningful and more deep
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and a more pleasant to be around
when I'm engaging those kind of
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activities.
And when I, if I don't do a
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podcast or I don't do any
writing or I don't do anything
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for a week or two or a month, I
become like a shell of myself.
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I feel it.
And I actually get down and I
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start to recognize that downness
in me.
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And I'm like, oh, I need that.
I need a fresh dose of writing.
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I need a fresh dose of an open
mic to play some guitar.
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I need to do a podcast or two.
And I do it, you know, And so,
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but it took, it took me 27,
2020, 627 years to figure that
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out.
I'm still figuring it out so
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good.
I'm so happy that it.
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I could be wrong, maybe I maybe
I'm not getting it, you know, I
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feel it.
I feel it.
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If you feel it, you're, you're
getting it, you know, 100%.
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It's all about how you feel in
your life on a daily basis.
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I mean, that's exactly what I do
in, in medicine too.
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It's about making people feel
look beautiful and feel good
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from the inside out, you know?
But there's a lot of elements
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that go into play.
And for you, it's doing stuff
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right that's really important
for you.
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For other people, it's managing,
you know, their diet or their
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lifestyle or their
relationships.
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Everyone has different elements
of their life that contribute to
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how they feel and their health
right there.
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It's all related, really 100%
related.
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But if you can feel good despite
whatever's happening on the
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outside, that is a miraculous
feeling.
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And that's not an easy place to
get to.
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And I'm not talking about
physical health.
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That comes.
I mean, just knowing who you are
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and feeling good within
yourself, whether you're doing a
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podcast or whether you're
married or single, have kids,
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none of that.
If you can just feel good and
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know who you are and feel calm
and at peace and move through
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life and be giving, like you
said, helping people and being
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like the Buddhist, that's a
beautiful thing.
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If you're, if you're there at
27, three days, two years. 2929
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yeah, it took me.
I started a couple years ago.
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Did you?
So when you came, I want to, I
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want to talk about that for a
little bit, But when you came
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back, did medical school feel
like a cold, like totally
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different universe than like
where you came from?
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It's funny because in fact, I
think I was, you know, it felt
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pretty culty in India, but at
the time I didn't feel like, no,
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you know, it helped me get
through Med school.
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I don't think I would have gone
through Med school without about
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meditation.
I really feel like it helped me.
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Really.
Yeah.
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First of all, it helps you
focus.
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Like it helped me study.
It helped me be like 1 pointed
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in my in my intention.
Like I knew, okay, I'm going to
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get through this, I'm going to
do this.
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But it gave me a mode of
concentration that I don't know
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I necessarily would have had
without meditation.
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I was meditating every day and
also I wasn't, you know, at the
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time you could be working 100 a
120 hours a week.
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And so if I could get a 5 minute
meditation break, it gave me
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energy like it allowed me.
So I was really grateful for
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that.
And I also had a bigger purpose
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in life and that, you know, when
you have a purpose in life, it
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changes everything.
Right, right.
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Gives you energy.
Just knowing, OK, I'm here to do
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this.
That really helps.
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Yeah.
That's interesting too, because
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I have a friend.
I have a very good friend of
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mine that's actually in Med
school now and he's a relatively
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uncommon case, I believe, I
don't know, but from my, from
369
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the people, from the friends
that I know in the world that
370
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I'm from, he's, he's in, he's,
he started Med school when he
371
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was married with two kids and,
and you know, and then I have my
372
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single friends that are in Med
school and for some reason he
373
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seems better at managing his
time and making his way from Med
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school.
I'm like, how do you do that?
375
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And he's like, well, I'm not
going to let my wife and kids go
376
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ignore it for 10 years, you
know, while I'm trying to get,
377
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you know, I'm going to medical
and residency.
378
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Like so like I almost have to
make it work.
379
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But I guess it's almost similar
to what you're saying.
380
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Like when you have that thing
that's grounding you and you
381
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have like that purpose that, you
know, like this is what I'm in
382
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school for and this what I'm
trying to accomplish.
383
00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:43,440
This is the purpose of it.
Then then you you learn to
384
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balance everything and not let
that slip aside I guess, right?
385
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Oh, it's a it's a huge driving
force, especially, you know,
386
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family.
Yeah, you need to support your
387
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family.
You want.
388
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If you want to maintain that,
Yeah, you have to be 1 pointed.
389
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Yeah, yeah, so interesting.
So that really helped you in Med
390
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school.
I think and residency, I kept
391
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going back and forth to India as
well.
392
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Oh, really?
Yeah.
393
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It was really pivotal in guiding
me.
394
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And then I kept learning when I
was in India, I kept learning
395
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about nutrition and Ayurvedic
medicine.
396
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And I realized, wow, like, here
I am in medical school learning
397
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about this kind of medicine, and
then there's other kind of
398
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medicines.
Like was it formal learning or
399
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how did you learn about that in
India?
400
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There were, Yeah, well, not, no,
it was not formal.
401
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There were Ayurvedic physicians
that I worked with when I was
402
00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,240
there.
And of course, you know,
403
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learning meditation and yoga was
all part of what I did every
404
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day.
And that really changed the
405
00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:41,000
course of my career because I
realized, wow, there's so much
406
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more here than just dispensing
medication.
407
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:47,240
And I want to be part of that.
Yeah, get you out of that box.
408
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,840
Yeah, it was for sure.
Yeah, it was.
409
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It was innovative at the time
and it I didn't know how it
410
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would manifest, but I just loved
it.
411
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And I loved, you know, thinking
that our ancestors have been
412
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doing this for so many years,
even though there's no clinical
413
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trial on this, there's got to be
something behind this, right?
414
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Like why are they doing this?
And, you know, Med school is all
415
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which is it's warranted.
Everything you learn has had a
416
00:20:13,120 --> 00:20:15,880
clinical trial study.
It's FDA approved.
417
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And then here I was exposed to a
whole other world of tradition.
418
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Yeah.
That, you know, my grandmother
419
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did it and they did it and it
and it worked.
420
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And so I'm going to do it too.
And I my goal was to men meld
421
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The Chew and practice medicine
that.
422
00:20:31,520 --> 00:20:34,320
Way so amazing, so unique it's
so cool.
423
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:38,600
I I, I feel yeah the more I the
more I hear about about, you
424
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know stories like yours and
stories like this I feel like we
425
00:20:41,800 --> 00:20:46,480
should have for medicine at
least like these international
426
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:49,960
programs where like, you know we
exchange of them great you know
427
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,360
what we know and like you at
least just for a little bit of
428
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exposure you know and if a
student chooses you know says
429
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it's not my it's not my speed,
but like it's good to know that
430
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it exists and it's out there
then great.
431
00:20:58,600 --> 00:21:01,120
And if some, if it really speaks
to you, then that you could
432
00:21:01,120 --> 00:21:03,080
really implement that into your
life and we could have more of
433
00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,440
that, you know.
That would be a great idea.
434
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,840
I mean, my schools, there's so
much you have to learn.
435
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:11,280
Like I, in retrospect, I mean,
for many, many years I thought,
436
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:15,240
I mean, I loved what I learned
and I appreciated it and I
437
00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:17,320
condemned it.
Like, well, we didn't learn
438
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,040
nutrition, we didn't learn this,
we didn't learn that.
439
00:21:19,240 --> 00:21:21,880
And I realized there's a lot to
pack in.
440
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:26,480
Learning the human body is a
tremendous task, you know, and
441
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,960
you've got four years to learn
it in school and then, you know,
442
00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:34,960
X amount of years in residency.
I almost wish that part of the
443
00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:39,320
Med school curriculum included a
more like a more unique
444
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,080
perspective because a lot of
what I learned in Med school is
445
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foundational.
And yet I feel like I don't know
446
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,320
if I ever used that ever on my,
you know, And I think couldn't
447
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:53,040
we learn a little bit more like
nutrition and food is medicine,
448
00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:56,440
And you're, like you said, be
exposed to how other cultures
449
00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,320
dealt with different diseases
and ailments.
450
00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:02,440
That would have been
fascinating.
451
00:22:02,440 --> 00:22:04,000
Yeah.
I would have loved.
452
00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:07,680
Especially especially if they're
as rich of history and tradition
453
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as something like India, you
know, like, I mean, America's
454
00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:13,640
young, you know, like, yeah,
like it's a little arrogant of
455
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,560
us to say, oh, we've been here
for 300 years, you got it all
456
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,600
worked out.
We're not going to talk to
457
00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:19,400
anyone else, you know, like.
Medicine is just a few years
458
00:22:19,400 --> 00:22:22,360
behind.
I will say like even to like, I
459
00:22:22,360 --> 00:22:25,000
remember I was going out and
talking to physicians about
460
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:26,920
taking fish oils and this was
you.
461
00:22:26,920 --> 00:22:29,640
Know somebody else mentioned me
yesterday, actually.
462
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,080
Fish oils.
Yeah, something he recommends
463
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:33,680
for everyone's.
Day and you know, the
464
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:36,200
cardiologist would laugh me off
the stage.
465
00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:39,080
This is when I was working for
that functional medicine company
466
00:22:39,680 --> 00:22:42,360
and it was really hard because I
really believed in it.
467
00:22:42,360 --> 00:22:45,080
There were studies that showed,
you know, not a lot, but there
468
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,800
was some scant studies that
showed it could be beneficial to
469
00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:50,840
lower inflammation.
And they just laughed.
470
00:22:51,000 --> 00:22:54,640
In the meantime, 25 years later,
they are prescribing it.
471
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,720
So medicine does catch up.
It takes time, Yeah.
472
00:22:57,920 --> 00:22:59,320
And it needs people to say it
though.
473
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,240
It needs, it needs a so nice to
be done these to be pushed.
474
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:04,560
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And that's happening like the
475
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:08,800
world right now of medicine is
exploding with this, these other
476
00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:09,800
types.
What are you excited about?
477
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,640
Tell me what you're all excited
about now, because I know
478
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,120
there's so much to be excited
about.
479
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:19,080
You know, it's so amazing
because now this whole world of
480
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,200
longevity medicine.
Exploding.
481
00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:23,760
It's so great.
It's so great, you know, and
482
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:27,520
the, the funny part is like, if
you look at the basis of
483
00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:32,920
longevity medicine, a lot of it
is sleep, lifestyle, exposure to
484
00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:37,640
time stands like, so it's, it's,
these are basic elements that
485
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:41,160
most functional medicine doctors
or alternative physicians or
486
00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,880
naturopaths have been talking
about for years.
487
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,160
Oh, that microbiome all of a
sudden is important.
488
00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:52,640
So I love how it seems to all be
coming together now with the
489
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,800
inclusion of like technology.
It's going to be groundbreaking.
490
00:23:56,800 --> 00:24:00,680
I mean, I feel like things are
going to dramatically change and
491
00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:03,480
it's going to, it's going to
happen really fast because of AI
492
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:06,320
technology.
So I think the and you know,
493
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:07,720
medicine is going to be
medicine.
494
00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:10,840
I mean, the way I see it is
medicine, like allopathic
495
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,880
medicine that I trained in is
always going to exist.
496
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,600
It's necessary, but it's for the
masses.
497
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,840
Healing.
Healing somebody is individual,
498
00:24:21,840 --> 00:24:26,120
like it's personalized.
It's very different than healing
499
00:24:26,120 --> 00:24:28,800
the masses.
And I appreciate the need for
500
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:31,440
that.
But then if you want longevity,
501
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,680
if you want real health, you're
going to get really personalized
502
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,600
medicine.
And that's the only way to know
503
00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:40,000
what you need as an individual
to be healthy.
504
00:24:40,280 --> 00:24:43,520
We should have, you should have
the option to be a doctor of
505
00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:48,120
medicine or a doctor of health.
And that way, you know, you can
506
00:24:48,120 --> 00:24:50,480
have a specialist that
specializes in particular
507
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:52,120
Medicare.
Because I feel like medicine,
508
00:24:52,360 --> 00:24:55,000
like the more that you people
talk about it and the more that
509
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,720
we think about it and the more
that we notice its application
510
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:01,480
and it's used, it's responsive,
you know, like it's just like
511
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,360
medicine is like no one pre
prescribes you, you know,
512
00:25:04,360 --> 00:25:06,800
steroids in case, you know, you
have inflammation.
513
00:25:06,800 --> 00:25:08,760
They you wait for somebody to
get inflammation, you come in
514
00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:10,440
and you do it.
But you can pre prescribe
515
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:14,200
someone sunlight.
You could pre prescribe someone
516
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,160
a healthy diet.
You could pre prescribe someone.
517
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:18,360
Hey, you know what?
Yeah, I noticed, you know, I
518
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:23,400
mean, I'm trying to tell my dad
now, my grandpa, you know, or
519
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,640
maybe you can tell me if you
know, a lot of the recent
520
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:30,360
research in terms of Alzheimer's
being some kind of, I've heard
521
00:25:30,360 --> 00:25:31,960
it being described as type 3
diabetes.
522
00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,520
A Yeah.
And do you want to explain kind
523
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,240
of how that works a little bit?
OK, sure.
524
00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:37,560
If you don't mind, if you're
familiar.
525
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,240
With it for meditation for brain
disorders, yeah.
526
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:43,080
Yes, because my, my so, my
grandfather was always afraid of
527
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:44,360
it.
He goes, it runs in our family,
528
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,600
but my grandfather was never
healthy until probably his late
529
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,240
50s, early 60s when he had a
heart problem.
530
00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:56,200
He had a double bypass surgery
and then he started working out
531
00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:58,840
after that.
But now, you know, within a
532
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:01,360
couple of years, his memory is
kind of gone.
533
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:04,000
And my dad does not really
exercise.
534
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,800
He moves around, He doesn't
really exercise and he doesn't
535
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,000
like do a line, doesn't take
care.
536
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:10,920
He doesn't take care to eat
healthy things.
537
00:26:10,920 --> 00:26:14,360
And I'm like, Pop, you got six
kids, you got 6 grand for kids.
538
00:26:14,360 --> 00:26:16,120
You're 55, you have the entire
world.
539
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Why would you not be preparing
yourself for when you're his age
540
00:26:19,320 --> 00:26:21,480
that you get to appreciate all
of that, you know, get to live
541
00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:23,640
like that.
So what do you, what do you?
542
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,880
So do you want to explain to me
with some what we're learning
543
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:29,680
recently?
So I just want to just take a
544
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,720
step back for a second.
And then, you know, in medicine,
545
00:26:32,920 --> 00:26:36,480
ultimately what happens is, you
know, you go and you see a brain
546
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,200
doctor or you go and you see a
heart doctor or you go and you
547
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,840
see an endocrinologist.
Yeah, it's very well.
548
00:26:42,840 --> 00:26:47,880
It's very like in a different
boxes for different organs, but
549
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,600
you know, we're all connected,
like everything is connected.
550
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:56,240
So if you have diabetes or if
you have a metabolic disorder,
551
00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:00,640
meaning if you have trouble like
insulin resistance or elevated
552
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:04,960
glucose or elevated hemoglobin
A1C, high lipids, it's not just
553
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,880
about your heart, it's not just
about diabetes, but it affects
554
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:13,800
everything it affects, You know,
we have 60,000 miles of vessels
555
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:17,400
in our body, 60. 1000 miles
miles of different kinds of
556
00:27:17,400 --> 00:27:18,200
vessels.
OK.
557
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:21,440
OK.
So you can imagine there's a lot
558
00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:25,760
of maintenance that has to go on
to keep those vessels flowing
559
00:27:26,120 --> 00:27:29,200
really well.
We know that every single organ
560
00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:32,400
needs oxygen, right?
The brain needs oxygen, the
561
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,960
heart needs oxygen.
And you?
562
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:36,520
Know breathing so important.
It's like what it's.
563
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,640
Like breathing is so important.
I mean, it's it's why.
564
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:40,760
Breathing.
Is so important.
565
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:43,360
Essential and then, you know,
thinking of the things that
566
00:27:43,360 --> 00:27:48,640
could damage these arteries and
but the point is it's a highway
567
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:51,400
of connections, right.
So what affects one thing
568
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:54,040
affects the other thing.
If you have diabetes, it's not
569
00:27:54,040 --> 00:27:57,200
just a problem with insulin and
glucose.
570
00:27:57,240 --> 00:27:59,680
It affects the vessels, like the
micro vessels.
571
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,440
And you know what is the number
one nutrition, nutritional
572
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,400
component that the brain needs?
It's oxygen.
573
00:28:08,440 --> 00:28:11,960
Like 20% of the body's oxygen
goes to the brain.
574
00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:15,400
If you can't get oxygen to the
brain, it's going to suffer,
575
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:18,160
right?
If you have inflammation in your
576
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,760
brain because you have insulin
resistance or elevated sugars,
577
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,120
it's going to create
inflammation in the brain and
578
00:28:24,120 --> 00:28:27,760
that when the brain tries to
repair itself, right, it's going
579
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,240
to damage itself in that
process.
580
00:28:30,320 --> 00:28:32,560
Because it's inflamed.
Because it's inflamed.
581
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,920
OK.
And inflammation comes from how
582
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:37,880
does what does inflammation
occur as a result?
583
00:28:37,880 --> 00:28:39,360
Well.
I mean inflammation can come
584
00:28:39,360 --> 00:28:43,520
from many different sources.
OK diet is one of the most
585
00:28:43,520 --> 00:28:47,960
common initiating factors is not
having a healthy diet.
586
00:28:47,960 --> 00:28:49,680
So I'm eating hamburgers every
day, right.
587
00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,920
I'm eating hamburgers every day,
three meals a day or pizza and
588
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,880
hamburgers every day, Right.
So I look like I'm a balloon,
589
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:57,000
right.
Like.
590
00:28:57,560 --> 00:28:58,080
Yeah.
Yeah.
591
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:00,160
Like a swell.
You could see like swelling.
592
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,400
Oh, I don't actually.
Let's say hypothetically I were
593
00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:02,960
too.
Yeah.
594
00:29:03,360 --> 00:29:05,320
And like you can kind of almost
like see when people look a
595
00:29:05,320 --> 00:29:08,360
little swollen from like
processed food that they're that
596
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,720
they're eating or breads
primarily, I guess, but.
597
00:29:12,160 --> 00:29:13,400
So again like so.
How does that?
598
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,320
How does that convert to
inflammation?
599
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:20,640
Well, if you think about it, so
first there's a gut issue,
600
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:22,200
right?
Like let's start from the
601
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,160
beginning.
So you're putting a processed
602
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:28,120
foods and there's hundreds of
chemicals in that food that
603
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:32,640
alone, you know, that hamburger
from wherever you're getting it
604
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:34,960
from, unless you're getting it,
you know, it's 100%.
605
00:29:34,960 --> 00:29:36,840
Yeah, yeah.
Yeah, we're assuming.
606
00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,360
Not we're going.
We're going to eat at a fast
607
00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:38,920
food place.
Yeah.
608
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,960
That thing is filled with
chemicals.
609
00:29:41,000 --> 00:29:41,480
Yeah.
OK.
610
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,480
That's your starting point.
It hasn't even gotten into your
611
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,000
mouth.
And you just imagine you've got
612
00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:46,760
this hamburger filled with
chemicals.
613
00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:48,960
Now you're going to bite into it
and you're going to put that in
614
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:49,720
your gut.
Yeah.
615
00:29:50,000 --> 00:29:52,640
And that all these chemicals,
some of them are going to be
616
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,640
absorbed.
Yeah.
617
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,080
And they're going to start
creating.
618
00:29:56,120 --> 00:29:58,000
They have to be filtered out
through the liver and the
619
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,840
kidney.
So they're going to hit your
620
00:29:59,840 --> 00:30:02,560
bloodstream, OK.
These are chemicals that are
621
00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:05,120
hazardous to your health.
We don't even know what these
622
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,000
chemicals do.
Actually, a lot of chemicals
623
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:10,760
that are in our food are even
they're banned in Europe and we
624
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,240
still put them in our food.
Well, hopefully I'll be
625
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:14,640
changing.
Yeah, hopefully I'll be
626
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:16,680
changing.
But so now you've got you're
627
00:30:16,680 --> 00:30:19,560
eating these chemicals, it's
going to affect your microbiome.
628
00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:23,000
Yeah, which really has a huge
impact if you don't have a
629
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:26,600
healthy GI system.
Yeah, that's going to be a first
630
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,000
point where inflammation can
start, OK.
631
00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:31,120
And then now you have these
chemicals floating through your
632
00:30:31,120 --> 00:30:32,520
body.
That's another point.
633
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:33,840
We don't know what those
chemicals are with.
634
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,920
By the way, I was scared the
heck out of me.
635
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,960
Someone asked me the difference
recently between a chemical and
636
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:41,040
a drug.
I was like, I don't know.
637
00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:45,040
They're like a drug.
A drug is intended for human use
638
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,160
and a chemical is not.
Well, I mean, that's, well, it's
639
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,600
almost like the word organic,
you know, What does organic
640
00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:53,120
mean?
Like in the food industry, it
641
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,400
has it.
It means like the animal or, you
642
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,160
know, the produce has no
pesticides or chemicals.
643
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,360
Yeah.
But there's a lot of organic,
644
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:07,840
I'm quoting chemicals, right,
that are used in chemistry labs.
645
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,400
And so it's really it's kind of
like what yours.
646
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:12,520
What so it says organic on it
doesn't?
647
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:13,840
No, no, no, I'm not saying that,
OK.
648
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:15,960
No, no.
Like hopefully the foods that we
649
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:18,480
buy that are organic are
organic.
650
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,120
Organic, right?
You know, hopefully that means
651
00:31:21,120 --> 00:31:23,680
something that would be awful if
it didn't.
652
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,360
I mean, there are people who
speculate that it may not all
653
00:31:26,360 --> 00:31:28,560
the time, but you know, we can
only do our best, like.
654
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,040
We could only do our best.
We're, we're on this planet,
655
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:32,840
there's a tremendous amount of
chemicals.
656
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:36,080
There's plastics everywhere.
We're finding microparticles in
657
00:31:36,080 --> 00:31:39,960
the brain by the way, you know,
so your productive.
658
00:31:39,960 --> 00:31:42,640
Organs all over the.
Place it's affecting all your
659
00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:45,760
hormones, it's affecting your
gut, it's affecting people's
660
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:49,440
longevity for the most part.
And then you, you know, you add
661
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,680
on things like like.
My plastic water bottle.
662
00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,400
You never drink out of plastic
water bottle.
663
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:57,880
I know, I know.
One of my biggest clips.
664
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:01,280
Yeah, I'm sorry.
You know, I'm I pick up plastic
665
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,960
all day long on the beach.
Like I'm out there with a bag
666
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:06,840
and I'm picking up plastic and
I'm thinking why that this is
667
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:09,800
devastating.
It's devastating to your body
668
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,480
and and it.
Yeah, because they can't pass up
669
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,560
the four for the 40.
The 40 pack of water bottles in
670
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:19,240
Costco for $4.00 Pass it up.
Pass.
671
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,160
It up, get a water filter, get a
get a canister, fill it up with
672
00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,040
water could.
A cooler be better or no because
673
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,920
it cools with one giant plastic
container as opposed to like a
674
00:32:27,920 --> 00:32:31,480
bunch of little bottles.
It has plastic.
675
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:32,240
It's no.
Good.
676
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:37,440
OK, unless you're putting your
metal container into a plastic
677
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:38,280
cooler.
I got.
678
00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:41,760
You, I would and you know,
you've got kids like you.
679
00:32:42,080 --> 00:32:46,160
So what I tell my patients is,
you know, we may not have
680
00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,560
control of what's going on out
there, but you have control of
681
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:51,480
what's going on in your life and
what you put in your body.
682
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,040
You certainly have a little bit
of control of that, right?
683
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:58,360
So you got it.
At least initiate, like, say,
684
00:32:58,360 --> 00:33:01,840
OK, in my house, I'm not going
to use any chemicals, OK.
685
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,400
I'm going to, you know, my
cleaning products are going to
686
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,360
be healthy.
My I'm not going to drink.
687
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:08,440
I'm going to get rid of all my
plastic, all my plastic
688
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,360
containers.
I'm just going to use glass.
689
00:33:10,560 --> 00:33:13,040
Easy.
Costco has glassware, you know.
690
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:16,920
Yeah, I'm going to get a nice
water filter system.
691
00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:19,280
And I'm going to fill up my
bottles before I leave my house.
692
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,000
Like simple things that you can
do to change the course of your
693
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,120
family's health.
You mean you have a baby?
694
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,520
Yeah, OK.
Right, like even the.
695
00:33:28,480 --> 00:33:30,120
It feels better hearing that
from you than my wife.
696
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,000
I.
Love her, she.
697
00:33:33,280 --> 00:33:35,760
Was like, I want, she was like,
you know, she goes, I don't want
698
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:37,320
to pressure you.
I know that, you know, there's a
699
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,160
lot of bills in life.
She's like, I'd really, really
700
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,960
like like a water filter.
You know how much money you
701
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:45,120
calculate.
I would love to know how much
702
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,280
money you spend a year on on
water.
703
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,200
Bottles, I can tell you right
now, probably I'd probably spend
704
00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,480
15, probably spend $12.00 a week
on water bottles.
705
00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,520
OK, so I probably finished that
340 packs a week, so it's 120
706
00:33:58,520 --> 00:33:59,240
water bottles.
Yeah.
707
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,800
I don't want to think about the
amount of plastic that is.
708
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:04,280
Let's not even talk about
plastic.
709
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:05,840
Let's talk.
About water, yeah, yeah, so.
710
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,280
Don't care about plastic, they
care about money. 12/24/12 but
711
00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:15,639
not really today it's about $36
a month time so I'm spending
712
00:34:15,639 --> 00:34:17,360
100.
I'm spending 120 bucks a year
713
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:17,920
100.
Dollars.
714
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:19,360
Now that's you.
You're one person.
715
00:34:19,360 --> 00:34:22,679
How many people are, you know,
let's say your wife doesn't do
716
00:34:22,679 --> 00:34:23,440
that.
Yeah.
717
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,000
OK.
So and then now you have the
718
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,800
years.
OK.
719
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:29,960
So how many years are you going
to, you know you're going to do
720
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:31,440
it for the next 20 years you've
done?
721
00:34:31,440 --> 00:34:32,560
It.
Yeah, I've done it.
722
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:33,719
I've done it forever.
Yeah, OK.
723
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:35,360
And now you're going to do it
for the next 20.
724
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,800
So now we're up to a lot of.
OK.
725
00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:40,400
Yeah.
So and what's the water filter?
726
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,840
What's the water filter cost
typically?
727
00:34:42,239 --> 00:34:45,840
Couple thousand to us, Yeah.
Couple grand, I mean, you can
728
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,679
get a whole house water
filtration system that's pretty
729
00:34:48,679 --> 00:34:52,000
decent, you know, for way less
than what?
730
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,880
And OK, so now we're going to
add in the chemical, the the
731
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,400
toxic component.
So you didn't just save money,
732
00:34:59,440 --> 00:35:03,840
but now you're saving your cells
from a disastrous ending.
733
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:06,520
We don't even know what that
ending is actually, because
734
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:10,200
these chemicals, this, the idea
that we were exposed to these
735
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:13,720
PFAS, these long term organic
chemicals that sit in your cells
736
00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:17,480
for years and years, we are.
You know what the consequence is
737
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:18,160
not.
Really.
738
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,440
But we do know that, like,
cancer is rising, heart disease
739
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,040
is rising, yeah.
Yeah, but we know rising.
740
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:24,960
We know that whatever we've been
doing is not right.
741
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:27,240
That's what we.
Know, I keep saying to people
742
00:35:27,240 --> 00:35:29,880
like, OK, when I went to Med
school, the number one leading
743
00:35:29,880 --> 00:35:32,200
cause of death was
cardiovascular disease.
744
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:37,000
You know, then it was cancer.
Still, we have cardiologists up
745
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:40,040
the wazoo.
We have medications, we have all
746
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:42,160
these things in play.
And what's still the number one
747
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,320
leading cause of death?
Cardiovascular disease
748
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:47,840
worldwide, 18 million people.
And it's like nothing has
749
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:50,400
changed in a way in so many
years.
750
00:35:50,440 --> 00:35:52,080
Yeah.
So we're not.
751
00:35:52,440 --> 00:35:56,160
What other direction can we look
in to change those statistics?
752
00:35:56,160 --> 00:35:58,320
Because I don't want to become a
statistic.
753
00:35:58,320 --> 00:35:59,840
No, you want to be a bit
statistic.
754
00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,200
You want.
To be a bit and you're young,
755
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,360
like you're in a great, you're
in a great position because
756
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,680
there's so much new, there's so
much information.
757
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,440
Like, I know I'm always, always.
I'm so excited.
758
00:36:11,480 --> 00:36:15,240
It's it's such an exciting time.
Really so exciting you know you
759
00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:18,520
have so many tools available to
you stay healthy I'm.
760
00:36:18,840 --> 00:36:21,000
Not like more people aren't
getting, you know, I think a lot
761
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,960
of people are excited, but like
hearing all this stuff is just
762
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,200
hopeful.
Like to me, like it's something
763
00:36:27,200 --> 00:36:29,000
that like people don't want to
hear.
764
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:34,320
I imagine we've had, like, bad
news travels really fast.
765
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,760
And like, when you have an
opportunity for good news and
766
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,520
they give an opportunity for
something exciting to hear,
767
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,080
like, Oh my God, we're making
great research.
768
00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:42,160
All you got to do is just spend
some time outside to go for a
769
00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,040
walk with your friends for 20
minutes, you know.
770
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:45,640
Yeah, a couple of times.
You know, a couple of times a
771
00:36:45,640 --> 00:36:48,680
week, like just do that.
Like your life will already be
772
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:49,880
better.
Like you're getting community,
773
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,400
you're getting exercise, you're
getting out there, you're
774
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:53,160
getting sunlight.
Like I used to get these
775
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:55,160
headaches from sitting just at
my desk all day.
776
00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,480
And then, you know, and I, I
spend probably 2-3 hours a day
777
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:01,080
outside now, maybe more.
You know, I love it.
778
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,320
And it just, even if I'm in
front of my screen the whole
779
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,120
time, just the sunlight in
general, just being outside
780
00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,760
really, really effects my
stamina when it comes to work in
781
00:37:10,760 --> 00:37:14,080
a positive way, effects how I'm
able to concentrate.
782
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,960
It stops those headaches from
happening and I am able to just
783
00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,240
like just keep on going.
It's just we're meant to do
784
00:37:19,240 --> 00:37:21,320
that, you know?
You know, yeah, that's where
785
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:24,760
that those, our ancestors, you
know, they were actually forced
786
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,160
to do it.
I'm not sure they were happy
787
00:37:26,160 --> 00:37:27,560
about it.
You know, getting up early in
788
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,160
the morning and watching the
sunrise.
789
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:32,160
They were out working, right?
A lot of our farmers are out
790
00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:35,080
there working.
So, you know, looking at the sun
791
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,040
early in the morning, going out
at noon.
792
00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:40,720
So it registers, OK, it's noon,
your body can actually register
793
00:37:40,720 --> 00:37:42,120
that.
Then going out again when the
794
00:37:42,120 --> 00:37:44,680
sun's going down.
OK, now you know, we're going to
795
00:37:44,680 --> 00:37:48,880
start, you know, calming the
body down, secreting hormones
796
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:50,920
that are.
So it's going to be 3 Jewish
797
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:52,400
prayers around the same time
too.
798
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,080
It's early morning as soon as
the sun comes up, noon and at
799
00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:57,840
night after as the sun's going
down.
800
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,720
Imagine if you prayed outside.
Yeah, a lot of people do.
801
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:05,680
I know I do sometimes.
I do sometimes, but I never even
802
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:07,640
associated that with that.
But that could be part of the
803
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,480
value of a routine schedule
where every day it's a
804
00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:15,440
combination of meditation and
actual, I mean, like, you know,
805
00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:17,760
different points.
You're sure to get outside
806
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:20,200
between the point of waking up
and getting to synagogue or
807
00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:21,320
praying.
Wherever you're praying or
808
00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:22,880
whatever you're doing, you're
sure to be outside.
809
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:26,480
And your circadian rhythm will
be, I guess, consistent.
810
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:29,960
Oh, I mean, you can definitely
reset your circuit.
811
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,000
Like we have so many issues this
in our lives right now with
812
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:37,080
stress and sleep affecting our
health that, you know, if you,
813
00:38:37,120 --> 00:38:39,600
if your circadian rhythm is off,
if you're not secreting the
814
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:43,320
right hormones, like you need
more cortisol, when you need the
815
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:46,360
cortisol, when you need that
energy and less at night when
816
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,360
you're going to bed, you want
that melatonin to kick in.
817
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:52,640
But you know, it's fascinating
because we like, I'm thinking
818
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:55,400
about you saying you go and you
pray three times a day, like
819
00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,200
you're committed.
Yeah, something in, yeah, there
820
00:38:58,200 --> 00:39:00,920
was a trigger, a switch went off
and said this is what I'm going
821
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,960
to do.
Like I believe in this, right?
822
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:06,240
Yeah, I don't did it like it may
have.
823
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:10,240
No, it came from the value of I
have a tendency to be lazy.
824
00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:13,520
I think a lot of people do, and
laziness is my least favorite
825
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,600
trait in the world.
Because it takes every other
826
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,760
good trait that you have and
throws into the garbage.
827
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,360
Because doesn't make a
difference how smart you are.
828
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,400
Doesn't make a difference how?
Talking to the art doesn't make
829
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,920
a difference how naturally fit
you are.
830
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,560
It doesn't make any of that,
none of that makes a difference
831
00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:27,560
because if you're lazy, you're
lazy, you're not going to do it.
832
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:31,960
So I part, I started
implementing that as a way to
833
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:35,600
fight my laziness.
And then I mean, you know,
834
00:39:35,640 --> 00:39:38,800
obviously there is the religious
value, the spiritual, emotional,
835
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:42,360
religious value to it as well.
But one of the real reasons I
836
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:46,120
really started working hard is
because I did not want like its
837
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:47,920
regiment in the face of
laziness.
838
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:51,440
And then hopefully, and once I'm
already getting myself out of
839
00:39:51,440 --> 00:39:55,920
the out of the just sitting
around zone, then that affects
840
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,880
everything else I do, you know,
and my wife asked me to do
841
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,480
something.
I'm much quicker to get up and
842
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:00,880
jump up and show her that I care
to do it.
843
00:40:01,080 --> 00:40:03,960
If my kid is crying, you know,
my kid calls me or falls down, I
844
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:06,280
pop up.
I'm like, oh, it's not like, you
845
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:07,920
know, go, you know, do your own
thing.
846
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,160
I'm on the couch.
I don't want to get up right
847
00:40:09,160 --> 00:40:10,840
now.
And hopefully it creates that
848
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,480
kind of environment, but it
affects everything in a positive
849
00:40:13,480 --> 00:40:15,160
way, so.
It's kind of like that's your
850
00:40:15,160 --> 00:40:17,480
form of meditation.
I guess so.
851
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:21,720
Meditation actually comes from
Yeah, I want to work on
852
00:40:21,720 --> 00:40:23,360
meditation.
I don't really know quite where
853
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,800
that is, but yes, we're gonna,
we're gonna circle.
854
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,080
Back yes, you can.
You can meditate while you pray.
855
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:31,400
Like meditation doesn't
necessarily mean sitting in
856
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,480
cross legged.
It can mean a lot of different
857
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:34,840
things.
You could be sort of active in
858
00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:36,400
your meditation.
The Buddhists do a lot of
859
00:40:36,400 --> 00:40:39,160
walking meditation.
But Oh yeah, I love that you can
860
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:41,560
pair.
Like if you were my patient, I
861
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:45,920
would say, OK, if I you, you go
three times a day, you pray.
862
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:51,360
Why don't you attach that to
going outside?
863
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,520
So now you're praying and you're
looking up at the sky, you know,
864
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:58,520
morning, noon and evening.
So now you're, you're also
865
00:40:58,520 --> 00:41:01,520
resetting your circadian rhythm
at the same time that you're
866
00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:03,320
doing something that you're 100%
committed to.
867
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:04,720
So you know you're going to do
it.
868
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:06,640
And that's how you create a new
habit, right?
869
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:11,200
Like and then now we have 2
lifestyle things that are
870
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:14,120
dramatically going to impact
your health because praying is
871
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:16,680
really calming.
I'm sure like unless you're
872
00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:18,720
rushing to get there but.
Well yeah, it depends on the
873
00:41:18,720 --> 00:41:19,920
day.
I try to make it calming.
874
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:23,240
Yeah.
So if you can, I mean, if you're
875
00:41:23,240 --> 00:41:26,760
rushing through a prayer and
you're not feeling it, you know,
876
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,000
I think it's important to like
feel what you're saying or
877
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:32,800
praying for.
Yeah, I it's a, it's a struggle
878
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,760
every single time.
Is it?
879
00:41:34,760 --> 00:41:40,600
It is it is because you're
plopping yourself out of goes go
880
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:43,000
mode.
And by the way, meditation would
881
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,040
probably help with my prayer
being more present because I'm
882
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:49,720
going I'm I'm shifting without
any transition.
883
00:41:49,720 --> 00:41:52,120
I'm shifting gears without
putting my foot, without putting
884
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:57,280
my foot on the clutch.
And so I so it's very easy if I
885
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:01,200
do it the wrong way to stall
out, you know?
886
00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:03,960
Here's the thing.
So maybe what you can do.
887
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,800
So just give me a synopsis.
Where are you praying?
888
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,320
In a synagogue.
OK, so you have to go to.
889
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:11,760
Yeah, so I drive 15 minutes to
the synagogue, 1015 minutes.
890
00:42:11,760 --> 00:42:13,680
Is that stressful?
No, it's very pleasant.
891
00:42:13,720 --> 00:42:17,240
OK, so while you're in the car
driving, if it's pleasant, why
892
00:42:17,240 --> 00:42:19,080
don't you start taking some deep
breaths?
893
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,640
Yeah, that's what I got to do.
You know, you got to take some
894
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,480
deep breaths.
You know, I'm breathing in, I'm
895
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,200
breathing out.
You can, you can say something
896
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:29,640
if it calms you down or just
focus on your breath while
897
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:32,080
you're driving.
And that'll immediately get you
898
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,640
into the present moment so that
when you get to the synagogue,
899
00:42:34,640 --> 00:42:38,880
you don't feel rushed or afraid.
And the transition to prayer is
900
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,280
a natural one because you've
already been meditating,
901
00:42:41,280 --> 00:42:43,160
correct?
And focusing on your breath for
902
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:45,320
15 minutes.
I'll be shifting from 1st to 2nd
903
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:48,080
to 3rd to 4th gear.
And this way you're not
904
00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:50,880
shifting, you get in the car and
it's not easy like you to to
905
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:53,120
focus on your breath for those
15 minutes.
906
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:55,200
Try it.
It's not an easy fast.
907
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,920
I do 5 minutes at a time.
Typically when I'm overwhelmed,
908
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,920
I'll do in and out.
I'll breathe in for five
909
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:02,960
seconds, out for five seconds,
for 5 minutes.
910
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:08,280
And I'll just, sometimes I'll
just focus on where, sorry, just
911
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:14,560
like the time like 123-451-2345.
And sometimes, you know, like
912
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:18,200
that voice of 12345, the
counting voice kind of starts to
913
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:21,400
slip off to the side and then
other, other things start coming
914
00:43:21,400 --> 00:43:22,800
in.
Like what?
915
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:23,800
Thoughts.
Yeah, the.
916
00:43:24,560 --> 00:43:27,360
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
And but it's, again, it's like a
917
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:29,800
current being pulled back, you
know, very, very slowly.
918
00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:33,160
And it's a little scary,
honestly, to see what's going to
919
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,440
come because like, you're like,
oh, this is like, I don't know,
920
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:40,600
I've never been here before.
You know, I went to, I went to a
921
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:45,800
Grateful Dead cover band in Port
Chester and there's something
922
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:47,160
about this particular band.
They're awesome.
923
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:48,480
They're called Dark Star
Orchestra.
924
00:43:48,840 --> 00:43:51,920
And I may have taken an edible
beforehand.
925
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:56,160
And I'm sitting there and there
are lights and use the music and
926
00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:00,880
I'm a little high and I and
it's, you know, this would be
927
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,280
and like the music was just
magnificent.
928
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,680
And I was like, and the lights,
the way they were playing into
929
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,040
the lights of the concert was
matching the tone of the music.
930
00:44:09,760 --> 00:44:11,720
And I was like, I'm going to try
to do some breath work now while
931
00:44:11,720 --> 00:44:13,960
I'm here.
And, like, I almost kind of like
932
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:18,440
slipped into like some kind of
like, like psychedelic state.
933
00:44:18,440 --> 00:44:20,840
Yeah.
You know, that I was like, whoa,
934
00:44:20,840 --> 00:44:22,760
like, I'm not ready to, like, go
quite there yet.
935
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:24,560
And I kind of, like, stopped to
pull myself out of it.
936
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:26,520
But I'd be curious to see what
happens if, like, you kind of
937
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:28,880
follow those, follow those paths
all the way down.
938
00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:31,240
It's just a little scary to.
There's nothing.
939
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,800
I mean, actually, those places
are magnificent.
940
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:37,440
I mean, it's hard to do if
you're on a if you're high, then
941
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:39,520
you don't know where you're
going to land.
942
00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:43,240
But if you're not, that's a
different, that's a different
943
00:44:43,240 --> 00:44:46,760
thing.
And it is kind of scary to let
944
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,560
yourself go.
But those are good places to go.
945
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,200
I.
Know, I know, I know.
946
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,160
It's.
I've never had an experience
947
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,320
where I was scared to do it and
I regretted doing what I was
948
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,800
scared about.
Oh yeah?
949
00:44:57,040 --> 00:44:59,720
Well, you know.
Yeah, but plenty of times I
950
00:44:59,720 --> 00:45:01,800
haven't done something I'm
scared about, and I've regretted
951
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,520
it, Right, You know?
So full story.
952
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,400
Are you ready for this?
Yeah, I've been keeping track of
953
00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,440
the whole conversation.
So you have plastics,
954
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:10,880
microplastics that are in your
gut because you're eating this
955
00:45:10,880 --> 00:45:12,760
cheeseburger and you got
inflammation.
956
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,200
And so now you're getting
inflammation.
957
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:17,440
Well, now let's say, for
example, a lot of people are
958
00:45:17,440 --> 00:45:20,920
sensitive to wheat.
They have gluten sensitivities,
959
00:45:20,920 --> 00:45:23,120
not necessary allergies.
It's not like you're going to go
960
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:27,120
into an anaphylaxis where you
need an EpiPen, but sensitivity
961
00:45:27,120 --> 00:45:29,040
to wheat.
So now you've got wheat going
962
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:32,240
into your system, you've got
these toxins.
963
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:34,120
Chemicals that are in these
burgers.
964
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:36,640
So, but you know, right there,
yeah, we haven't even really
965
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:40,320
gotten into the body and we're
filled with the potential for
966
00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:41,640
inflammation.
So that's.
967
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:45,440
So that means that inflamed just
means upset.
968
00:45:45,680 --> 00:45:47,920
It means hurt, damage.
What does inflammation mean?
969
00:45:48,560 --> 00:45:51,320
Inflammation in the traditional
sense means like you cut
970
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:53,840
yourself.
If you cut yourself, your body's
971
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,080
way of healing is it creates an
inflammatory response and then
972
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,000
cells get into that area that
actually heal.
973
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:02,480
OK.
You know, everyone, people talk
974
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,080
about inflammation like a fire,
you know, and you're putting the
975
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,080
fire out.
OK, But then there are little
976
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:12,160
fires happening in your body all
the time because of this chronic
977
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:16,560
inflammation that are stirring
things up that are creating
978
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:21,120
damage there to the cells, to
your the lining of your vessels,
979
00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:24,800
creating a potential for a
plaque or to your organs,
980
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,480
creating inflammation in in
particular organs and, or you
981
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:30,080
know, if you have.
Because there's all these little
982
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:31,480
fires popping up around your
body.
983
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:34,040
Correct.
And so that's where chronic
984
00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,680
inflammation.
And what and.
985
00:46:35,760 --> 00:46:38,720
And if there's too many fires,
your cells can't keep up to put
986
00:46:38,720 --> 00:46:41,240
them out.
So it's activating your immune
987
00:46:41,240 --> 00:46:43,360
system, right?
So your immune system is no
988
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:48,120
longer reacting to a virus or
bacteria, but it's chronically
989
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:50,520
being activated and it's
creating damage.
990
00:46:50,720 --> 00:46:55,600
It's actually creating oxidative
stress and it's creating damage.
991
00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:58,800
And that that ages people.
Right.
992
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,920
It creates the IT creates.
It's a setup for Alzheimer's.
993
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:06,280
It's a setup for a
cardiovascular event because the
994
00:47:06,280 --> 00:47:08,720
lining of the artery can get
inflamed and the plaque could
995
00:47:08,720 --> 00:47:11,520
break off.
So it causes damage in many
996
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:15,800
areas.
Connections in our body, it's
997
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:20,120
almost like the the streets are
getting damaged for our like, is
998
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:21,320
that, is that like a good
metaphor?
999
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,320
Like if like the like, yeah,
like you're chipping away at the
1000
00:47:23,320 --> 00:47:26,040
road and then it becomes bumpy
to drive down and you're like,
1001
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,080
OK, I'm not going to take this
road.
1002
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:28,640
Rd.
But you know, if you don't take
1003
00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:30,560
that road then the connections
in your brain aren't going to be
1004
00:47:30,560 --> 00:47:34,280
as stable or secure.
I mean pretty much if you think,
1005
00:47:34,400 --> 00:47:36,840
I mean, I like to use the
example of fire because it
1006
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,560
actually makes a lot of sense.
So you can have an acute
1007
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:42,800
inflammation where something
happens, you cut yourself, your
1008
00:47:42,800 --> 00:47:46,800
body sends things in there and
it puts the hose and takes the
1009
00:47:46,800 --> 00:47:49,080
fire up.
But if you have this chronic
1010
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,840
inflammation from so many
different things and even stress
1011
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:57,200
can impede your immune system.
So it's not working as well to
1012
00:47:57,200 --> 00:48:01,480
put out these fires like these
cascade of events that are
1013
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:06,040
happening are not.
It's not as simple as it's like
1014
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:07,920
that whole element we're talking
about.
1015
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:11,400
Everything is connected.
So if you're eating wheat, for
1016
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,920
example, and you're sensitive to
wheat, and now that wheat enters
1017
00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,960
into your stomach, it should
just be processed in a normal
1018
00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,680
person and then your GI tract
would work.
1019
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,920
It would that wheat protein
would never be seen by your
1020
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:25,760
blood.
It would never cause an antibody
1021
00:48:25,760 --> 00:48:27,840
to be formed.
It would never cause a reaction.
1022
00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,640
But now we have these chemicals
disrupting the lining of the
1023
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,600
guts, and now the lining of the
gut can potentially leak things
1024
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:37,360
that shouldn't be leaked into
the bloodstream.
1025
00:48:37,360 --> 00:48:39,000
And now the bloodstream is
seeing.
1026
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:42,880
So you're weakening your butt,
your your your, your gut, and
1027
00:48:42,880 --> 00:48:44,960
then think and things that your
gut supposed to naturally
1028
00:48:44,960 --> 00:48:47,200
protect and prevent from getting
into your bloodstream are able
1029
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:48,720
to get through.
Yeah.
1030
00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:51,160
So your body and your body sees
them is foreign.
1031
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,680
Right.
And I bet a lot of it is
1032
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,360
foreign.
I bet like the stuff that's if
1033
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,520
you I mean I've heard.
Some of it is.
1034
00:48:56,520 --> 00:48:59,800
Some of it's not like an allergy
to, you know, we shouldn't be
1035
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:01,640
allergic to our environment in
theory.
1036
00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:05,880
Why are we allergic to grass?
Yeah, I mean, but we are because
1037
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,080
people's immune systems are
different, right?
1038
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:12,640
But there's some I, we're just
talking about 1 area where you
1039
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:16,600
can get a potential inflammation
because you brought up the
1040
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:21,080
hamburger, right?
But it sets off a cascade of
1041
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,520
many events.
If you're only eating this and
1042
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,320
it's, and it's filled with
chemicals and it's filled with
1043
00:49:26,320 --> 00:49:28,840
something that your body is
sensitive to.
1044
00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:32,400
Now your body is more inflamed,
whether it's your brain or your
1045
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:33,960
heart.
And now you're set up for
1046
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:37,640
chronic disease.
And that's, you know, in the
1047
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:40,880
world of longevity medicine,
it's like you try to figure out,
1048
00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:44,200
OK, first of all, what's causing
that inflammation?
1049
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:47,080
How do I bring that person back
into balance?
1050
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,680
And there's so many elements
that you need to look at,
1051
00:49:49,680 --> 00:49:51,680
whether it's, you know, the
stress in their life, what
1052
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:55,080
they're putting in their bodies.
Do they have problems with the
1053
00:49:55,080 --> 00:49:57,880
lining of their gut?
Are they over inflamed?
1054
00:49:57,880 --> 00:49:59,760
Is their immune system
overreactive?
1055
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:04,400
Are they creating fires all over
their body, which is basically
1056
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:10,000
like your car is rusting, right?
So if you have a car, I used to
1057
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,600
use this metaphor all the time
when I was giving lectures, like
1058
00:50:12,680 --> 00:50:16,240
everyone takes their car in
religiously, right to be
1059
00:50:16,240 --> 00:50:18,960
serviced.
People don't do that for
1060
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,440
themselves, unfortunately, until
a lot of people, I shouldn't say
1061
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:24,680
everybody.
Some people are very proactive
1062
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:28,440
with their health, but most
people don't react until
1063
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,560
something has happened and then
they get active.
1064
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,200
Sure.
And then it's a very slippery
1065
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,760
slope, by the way, because then
once you start realizing one
1066
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:39,360
thing, then you start realizing,
Oh my God, it's all like you
1067
00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:40,520
said, because it's all connected
it.
1068
00:50:41,040 --> 00:50:43,400
But I feel like that actually
scares some people off because
1069
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:45,920
that causes it requires massive
overhaul.
1070
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:49,280
Well, it requires a massive
overhaul if you already have a
1071
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:54,120
disease and not not always, but
so that's why in the that's why
1072
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:55,840
it's good to get Someone Like
You in.
1073
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:59,080
So if we can get people taking
care of themselves, learning
1074
00:50:59,080 --> 00:51:02,320
about this when you're younger,
how do I prevent this?
1075
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,680
How amazing would that be if you
knew what you were genetically
1076
00:51:06,680 --> 00:51:10,760
predisposed to, if you knew, you
know, that, you know, drinking
1077
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,400
water out of plastic was bad and
you stopped doing if you learned
1078
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:17,320
that, OK, if I take, if I do
this, if I look at the sun in
1079
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,800
the morning and at noon and at
night, I'm going to reset my
1080
00:51:19,800 --> 00:51:22,320
circadian rhythm.
If I start meditating, I'm going
1081
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:24,920
to calm my nervous system down
so I'm not always in the fight
1082
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:27,040
or flight mode.
I'm going to, you know, take
1083
00:51:27,240 --> 00:51:31,640
toxic chemicals out of my house.
There's so many interventions
1084
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:35,320
that we can do before you get
sick that would help.
1085
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:39,680
You know what I mean?
Yeah, yeah, I think, I think it
1086
00:51:39,720 --> 00:51:41,680
could be wrong.
I think Peter Attia calls in
1087
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:45,720
Medicine 3.0 like the whole idea
of like it's not just treating,
1088
00:51:45,720 --> 00:51:47,960
it's like everything leading up
to that to make sure it doesn't
1089
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:49,920
happen.
But then when it if it does
1090
00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:51,920
happen, we have the ability to
handle it.
1091
00:51:51,920 --> 00:51:53,360
But don't wait for that to be
the case.
1092
00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:55,160
Yeah.
I mean, once you're in that,
1093
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:58,560
once you have a disease, it's
much harder to reverse and
1094
00:51:58,560 --> 00:51:59,760
prevent.
You know it's a it's.
1095
00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:01,760
Yeah, yeah.
So that's what I find.
1096
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:03,320
So that's so go back to my dad.
That's why.
1097
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:05,840
That's why I'm trying to get him
now to do these kind of things.
1098
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,400
I'm like, you don't want that.
You don't want to start fighting
1099
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:11,120
this, It's too late.
You want to do this in advance.
1100
00:52:11,120 --> 00:52:14,240
You never have to know about.
It yeah, and you know, a lot of
1101
00:52:14,240 --> 00:52:16,720
people, they don't want to
change their lives.
1102
00:52:16,720 --> 00:52:20,160
They're really comfortable in
not doing what they should be
1103
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,160
doing.
You know, it's really hard to
1104
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:25,520
change habits so that's why some
people need a shock.
1105
00:52:25,520 --> 00:52:27,760
They need to.
Oh, you, now you go and you get
1106
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:29,960
blood work and Oh my God, my
cholesterol is.
1107
00:52:30,240 --> 00:52:33,320
The shock, what it could do to
people is crazy.
1108
00:52:33,720 --> 00:52:36,440
It can change people.
You get diagnosed with something
1109
00:52:36,440 --> 00:52:38,520
and that's going to motivate
you.
1110
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,560
But the question is, how do you
get motivated before that
1111
00:52:41,560 --> 00:52:42,440
happens?
Right?
1112
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:44,000
Like for some people, it's
family.
1113
00:52:44,040 --> 00:52:48,360
Yeah, well, I've got a kid who's
2 and you know how?
1114
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,960
Many weeks old, one week OK
legit.
1115
00:52:51,480 --> 00:52:54,320
Yeah, I mean, I'm going to be
there when my kids, you know,
1116
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:55,680
get married and have.
Grandkids.
1117
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,840
That's my good friends just now.
By the way, he lost like I think
1118
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:03,720
like 115 lbs in like a year
because he went to his doctor.
1119
00:53:03,720 --> 00:53:06,280
His doctor was like, if you
want, he had his four kids under
1120
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,040
6.
I think at that point he had two
1121
00:53:09,040 --> 00:53:10,680
and his wife was expecting right
sick.
1122
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,240
If you want to go to your kids
wedding this you got to cut the
1123
00:53:13,240 --> 00:53:16,760
shit out.
And he and he and he started
1124
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:19,920
exercising and he started he he
got a good amount of sunlight,
1125
00:53:19,920 --> 00:53:22,240
but he started exercising and
being healthy.
1126
00:53:22,240 --> 00:53:24,800
Like he just, you know, like, I
think emotion, I think like
1127
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,680
eating people become like people
turn eating into activity, you
1128
00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:32,920
know, not into, not into
something that's just required.
1129
00:53:32,920 --> 00:53:34,680
Like it's not like putting in
gas in your car.
1130
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:39,880
It's like how can we get the
purple bubble gum flavored gas?
1131
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:42,600
You know, like you try to dig
into more fun experience.
1132
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:44,880
Yeah, and you don't want to take
that away from somebody.
1133
00:53:45,120 --> 00:53:48,720
So like I try to always find a
compromise for people because
1134
00:53:48,720 --> 00:53:51,480
you don't want to take away
their pleasures or all of their
1135
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,400
pleasures.
And at the same time, you know,
1136
00:53:54,400 --> 00:53:57,440
you want to let them know if you
continue doing the if you
1137
00:53:57,440 --> 00:54:00,640
continue behaving this way,
you're a setup for.
1138
00:54:00,840 --> 00:54:04,200
And then and then what?
Then you're in the medical
1139
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:06,120
system.
God, don't.
1140
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:09,320
If you can avoid being in the
medical system, you know, if you
1141
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:17,080
can avoid medications and it's,
it saves you so much time, so
1142
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,000
much money.
That's I think the cause of
1143
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,280
people.
The lead cause of bankruptcy
1144
00:54:21,320 --> 00:54:23,640
among individual families or
family people being broke in
1145
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:25,840
America is medical pills.
Yeah, that's.
1146
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:27,400
Really.
Medical expenses, It's terrible.
1147
00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:29,000
It's really, that's really
terrible.
1148
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,680
I just like there's so many
things that we can do.
1149
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:34,280
And The thing is that people,
it's really hard to tell
1150
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,440
somebody that if you exercise,
you're going to feel good.
1151
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:39,040
Especially if you have an
exercise and the first time you
1152
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,280
do it, it's really hard and you
don't feel good.
1153
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:42,600
The next day, you hurt and
whatever.
1154
00:54:43,120 --> 00:54:46,360
But at some point, that switch
goes off and it starts feeling
1155
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:47,080
good.
Yeah.
1156
00:54:47,680 --> 00:54:49,560
And you have to get that.
It's really hard to get the
1157
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:52,440
person to that point.
But if you can, like, with your
1158
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:56,160
dad, like, do it with him or
like, just sometimes you just
1159
00:54:56,160 --> 00:55:00,240
got to force yourself.
I tell people, hire a trainer if
1160
00:55:00,240 --> 00:55:03,320
you can afford it.
Or go to a gym, commit, you
1161
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,160
know, pay for something.
And usually people are get
1162
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,240
committed when they pay for a
gym membership.
1163
00:55:08,240 --> 00:55:10,800
I'm going to go and start small.
Yeah.
1164
00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,720
You know, it's, it can be
overwhelming taking care of your
1165
00:55:14,720 --> 00:55:17,520
health and this body.
And then, you know, you've got
1166
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,920
your your home and your kids and
it's a lot.
1167
00:55:21,040 --> 00:55:22,400
Yeah.
It's a lot to take in.
1168
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:24,160
So small steps.
Yeah.
1169
00:55:24,240 --> 00:55:25,320
Start small.
Yeah.
1170
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:29,360
You know, And then little by
little it grows like, like an
1171
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:30,680
investment.
It's snowballs.
1172
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,960
Yeah, it's snowballs.
I don't recognize my house now
1173
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:36,080
from two years ago.
I don't recognize the food in
1174
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:37,480
it.
I don't recognize the cleaning
1175
00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:38,480
material that we use.
Oh.
1176
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:42,080
You like she saved everything.
Oh yeah, me too.
1177
00:55:42,120 --> 00:55:44,000
I do.
I like to shop.
1178
00:55:44,000 --> 00:55:45,680
Actually shopping for me is like
therapeutic.
1179
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,240
Even when I was in college and
I'd be like stressed out over
1180
00:55:48,240 --> 00:55:50,280
anything, I'd be like, can't go
to my mates, I'm running to the
1181
00:55:50,280 --> 00:55:53,440
supermarket.
Like I'd run out and just walk
1182
00:55:53,440 --> 00:55:55,680
me down the aisles, you know.
And so I do a lot of shopping
1183
00:55:55,680 --> 00:55:58,480
now and I'm looking and today
actually, I was just going back
1184
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:01,120
from Trader Joe's this morning.
I'm looking at my card.
1185
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,120
I'm like, when did I turn into
this person?
1186
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:06,080
You know, like when did I turn
into the guy that, you know,
1187
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,040
was, you know, the in college,
all I'm putting in my cart was
1188
00:56:09,040 --> 00:56:12,120
beer and like hot dogs.
And now I'm putting in like, you
1189
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:15,120
know, cottage cheese and like
kidwa pasta for like my wife.
1190
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:19,440
And like, what is this?
Like this is the this is a trip.
1191
00:56:19,440 --> 00:56:22,720
This is weird, you know, but
yeah.
1192
00:56:22,720 --> 00:56:25,600
But I think, I think that the
point is that I think it's scary
1193
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:27,240
for a lot of people to start,
but I think it does snowball.
1194
00:56:27,240 --> 00:56:29,360
I think people do find to have
an easier time with it
1195
00:56:29,360 --> 00:56:31,440
eventually.
And I think we do, you know,
1196
00:56:31,440 --> 00:56:33,760
it's so funny because we, we're,
we're, you know, we commit to
1197
00:56:33,760 --> 00:56:37,240
going to work every day, but we
can't like it's hard for us to
1198
00:56:37,240 --> 00:56:41,120
commit to doing exercise.
I know that work brings money.
1199
00:56:41,120 --> 00:56:44,080
And I'm not saying that that
should be ignored, but it's
1200
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:48,120
interesting what we choose to
commit to like 100% of our time.
1201
00:56:48,800 --> 00:56:53,000
And so it's really important to
understand, especially when
1202
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:55,480
you're young and it's easy to
think, I'm so resilient.
1203
00:56:55,480 --> 00:56:58,200
Nothing ever going to happen to
me because you feel good.
1204
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,760
So like, why do you have to
change anything but even small
1205
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,840
changes and then setting up
those habits, Like my mom, I
1206
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:10,560
remember she started, my mom is
89 and she's in amazing shape.
1207
00:57:10,560 --> 00:57:12,040
Amazing.
Ridiculous, really.
1208
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:13,080
Yeah.
She's so happy.
1209
00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:15,920
She just stay in healthy shape
for a long time.
1210
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:18,240
She walks every day, like twice
a day.
1211
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:20,360
She's committed to that.
She just eats.
1212
00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:23,680
She's not even that interested
in organic, but she's very
1213
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:25,080
wholesome.
She cooks all her food.
1214
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:27,680
She doesn't eat out a lot.
My grandfather's the same way.
1215
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:29,960
And he was so healthy, right?
Like simple.
1216
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,400
He he, he, yeah, he ended up he
had, he was 91.
1217
00:57:33,400 --> 00:57:35,760
He got a stroke, unfortunately,
and he wasn't, he wasn't the
1218
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,320
same after that.
But till he was 91, living
1219
00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:42,720
alone, yeah, You know, walk 3-4,
two between two and five miles a
1220
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:48,040
day, you know, into, into his
90s cooked by himself, you know,
1221
00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,960
granted simple food, you know,
you get you go to the farmer's
1222
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:53,040
market, you get some, you get
some eggs, you get some meat,
1223
00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:54,720
you get some yogurt, you get
some whatever.
1224
00:57:55,120 --> 00:57:56,800
And.
Where was he?
1225
00:57:57,120 --> 00:58:00,120
In New Jersey, Fairlawn, New
Jersey, yeah, yeah, yeah, You
1226
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:03,360
just stop at local Fairlawn and
we just.
1227
00:58:03,600 --> 00:58:07,480
And and.
And he and he was sharp as a
1228
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:10,840
tack and he was smart and he was
healthy and he took care of the
1229
00:58:10,840 --> 00:58:12,360
home and he cleaned every day
and.
1230
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:16,440
And he and like people would
meet him be like, you look
1231
00:58:16,480 --> 00:58:19,040
better than my 6 year old dad.
You, you know, you look better
1232
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:22,600
than my 65 year old uncle.
Like it's crazy, you know?
1233
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:25,240
I I know that like my mom, she's
you're so.
1234
00:58:25,280 --> 00:58:28,800
You, you, you came up.
You grew up in a healthy family.
1235
00:58:28,800 --> 00:58:32,600
I really, I actually really did.
My mom is from Europe and so and
1236
00:58:32,600 --> 00:58:36,200
she grew up on a Hungary.
Yes, so and she grew up like
1237
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:38,640
part of her, she also went
through the Holocaust.
1238
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:42,680
So she, but she grew up on a
farm and so she's very back to
1239
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:45,560
the earth, organic in living,
like she believed, like when we
1240
00:58:45,560 --> 00:58:47,680
were sick, she'd put us in a
stroller.
1241
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:49,640
You got to get fresh air.
You got to get fresh air, you
1242
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:52,640
know, like you got.
It so it's really so I'm going
1243
00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:55,520
to like grandfather.
Such a European attitude.
1244
00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:58,840
But it's she's stoic.
I mean, she's and she loves to
1245
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:00,520
clean, I think because she likes
movement.
1246
00:59:00,520 --> 00:59:03,840
She knows that, you know, we
don't, we don't do a lot of
1247
00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:06,080
these things.
You know, we are eating packaged
1248
00:59:06,080 --> 00:59:07,160
foods.
We're not cleaning.
1249
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:08,000
We're not.
Cleaning.
1250
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,200
Cleaning is such a simple thing
and it feels so good.
1251
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:12,840
I.
Know I mean I hate to say it, I
1252
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:16,200
I loved having someone clean my
house, but the same time now I
1253
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:19,560
when I clean I put weights on.
Doesn't need to be deep clean by
1254
00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:23,120
the way, like, you know, like I
couldn't like my wife like maybe
1255
00:59:23,120 --> 00:59:26,000
once every couple of months
we'll hire just like someone to
1256
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:29,120
do a clean like a deep clean.
Yeah, but I do just wipe down
1257
00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:33,680
counters vacuum fault laundry
and like he just like again just
1258
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:35,400
to move it.
You feel great.
1259
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,240
You feel a lot.
You feel like you're like.
1260
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:40,280
Right, but try, I mean try to
convince people that cleaning
1261
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:41,280
is.
I think you.
1262
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,080
Could.
Yeah, I think you got to, you
1263
00:59:43,080 --> 00:59:44,720
know, you got to get the right
people to do it.
1264
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,040
I think I know you do.
You got to get people that
1265
00:59:47,040 --> 00:59:50,120
people look up to.
And it's like, because I think
1266
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,720
it's all associations, right?
It's all like people like
1267
00:59:52,720 --> 00:59:57,560
associate wiping down counters
and vacuuming with like a grumpy
1268
00:59:57,560 --> 01:00:00,320
old woman in ATV in a, in a
movie or Cinderella or something
1269
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:02,000
like that, you know?
You know what I like about
1270
01:00:02,000 --> 01:00:04,120
cleaning it?
There's a beginning, there's a
1271
01:00:04,120 --> 01:00:06,520
middle, and there's an end.
Not I'm not talking about
1272
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,280
cleaning out your closets.
I'm like the floor.
1273
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:12,880
Like if I take on the task of a
floor, it's so pleasurable to
1274
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:15,680
like, you know, literally have
an ending.
1275
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,640
Like a lot of life doesn't have
an ending.
1276
01:00:17,680 --> 01:00:19,440
And that's what makes it
stressful is you don't know
1277
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:21,920
where it's falling.
It's such a great, it's such, I
1278
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:23,240
never noticed it, but you're
correct.
1279
01:00:23,480 --> 01:00:26,200
Because when you're done and you
look around and it's like you
1280
01:00:26,200 --> 01:00:28,440
feel like you're in a different.
Room you did it you clean the
1281
01:00:28,440 --> 01:00:31,600
floor I mean a basic task and
then I told you I started
1282
01:00:31,600 --> 01:00:35,120
wearing weights when I clean and
bands on my legs because I my.
1283
01:00:35,240 --> 01:00:38,160
Mom does that.
And I'm like, this is, this is
1284
01:00:38,160 --> 01:00:39,640
great.
Like I'm sweating, I'm
1285
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:43,080
exercising now.
My cleaning has like many
1286
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:44,560
purposes.
Yeah, Yeah.
1287
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,800
I actually really, I look
forward to it because I know I'm
1288
01:00:47,800 --> 01:00:50,520
getting a lot, but I, you know,
I understand people are busy
1289
01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:52,000
and.
I don't know.
1290
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:53,320
I think it's good for you.
I think that.
1291
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:55,120
I don't think it's a bad thing
to say that.
1292
01:00:56,960 --> 01:01:00,560
I think it's part of the.
I think responsibility and
1293
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,240
meaning and happiness all go
hand in hand.
1294
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:09,920
And I think that choosing to
take on even simple things adds
1295
01:01:09,920 --> 01:01:12,160
to your sense of responsibility,
which adds to your sense of
1296
01:01:12,160 --> 01:01:15,200
meaning and happiness, which
ultimately helps you know, And
1297
01:01:15,200 --> 01:01:17,040
it might be a little thing and
you're like, OK, poo poo.
1298
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,720
But like, you do it.
You feel like a better human
1299
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:21,480
being.
You know, you know, it's also
1300
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:24,560
like we've gotten away from that
organic type of living because
1301
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:28,520
we, a lot of us do, you know, we
work so much.
1302
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:31,520
We're in offices, we're in
closed spaces.
1303
01:01:31,680 --> 01:01:35,120
Some people are really isolated,
very different than what our
1304
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:39,080
ancestors did, you know?
And I think, like my, I always
1305
01:01:39,080 --> 01:01:40,760
think, how do I get back to the
basics?
1306
01:01:40,760 --> 01:01:43,480
Like, really like finding
pleasure in the smallest of
1307
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,640
things because if you don't look
for them, you don't find them.
1308
01:01:46,680 --> 01:01:49,280
Yeah.
And then your life, you know,
1309
01:01:49,280 --> 01:01:51,440
you have to think what, you
know, everyone's saying, what
1310
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,960
are you grateful for?
Like some people have nothing on
1311
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:57,720
their list, so you got to find
the littlest of things, right?
1312
01:01:57,720 --> 01:01:59,600
Like to start, you have to start
somewhere.
1313
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,200
Like whether it's your diet or
your gratitude journal or your
1314
01:02:02,200 --> 01:02:06,320
meditation or your prayer like
or your breathing like just
1315
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,560
start.
And The thing is you're never
1316
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,560
going to be ready.
You cannot wait until you're
1317
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,760
ready, because if you wait till
you're ready, I'm.
1318
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:15,440
So happy it's coming from you
and not me.
1319
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:17,560
But that's how.
I agree with.
1320
01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:20,520
You, I mean, these are your
thoughts, I have to say every
1321
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:24,360
day like you have to know, get
up and just do it because you're
1322
01:02:24,360 --> 01:02:28,040
not going to be ready to start
that project ever because you're
1323
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:33,200
I'm, I'm I, I would say I'm kind
of type A, you have to be kind
1324
01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,840
of to get through Med school.
And so unless it's perfect, I
1325
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:38,080
don't proceed.
And so I'm trying to retrain my
1326
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,120
brain.
Actually, I'm doing I'm learning
1327
01:02:40,120 --> 01:02:43,040
a lot about neuroplasticity,
which is amazing.
1328
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,840
I love it because up until now
I've been in that, you know, in
1329
01:02:46,840 --> 01:02:50,160
my personal life, working on my
spirituality and I put that in
1330
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:55,200
quotation marks.
And now I'm, I'm also using my
1331
01:02:55,200 --> 01:03:00,280
neuroplastic brain to help me.
So it's not just about
1332
01:03:00,280 --> 01:03:02,280
spirituality.
It's like I want to change those
1333
01:03:02,280 --> 01:03:04,880
pathways that, you know, I've
been doing this for a long time
1334
01:03:04,880 --> 01:03:07,120
and I don't like this habit.
So how do I change?
1335
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,640
It yeah.
So what do you so so I what are
1336
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:11,800
some things that you do to do
that?
1337
01:03:12,680 --> 01:03:14,760
So.
So first of all, you.
1338
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:18,760
What is actually first, define
neuroplasticity in case sorry
1339
01:03:18,800 --> 01:03:20,080
just yeah, because I'm familiar
with it.
1340
01:03:20,120 --> 01:03:23,040
I want to make sure that.
Well, so the brain has the
1341
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:26,640
ability to constantly create new
neural pathways.
1342
01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:30,440
So like who you are today, if
you don't like a certain element
1343
01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:33,360
of how you think or how you are,
you can actually change that.
1344
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:36,360
And I actually remind all my
patients, like, just remember
1345
01:03:36,360 --> 01:03:39,280
the body wants to heal.
Like whatever it's doing,
1346
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:44,240
whether it's inflammation or, or
even other things that chronic
1347
01:03:44,240 --> 01:03:48,320
diseases, a lot of it, your body
really doesn't want to be sick.
1348
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:50,040
Your body is moving towards
healing.
1349
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:54,320
Your brain is not just this
organ that's sitting there and
1350
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,600
it's not changing.
It's changing all the time.
1351
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:02,280
So you have the ability to
change the way you, you think in
1352
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,640
your daily life.
If you've been doing, if you've
1353
01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:07,720
been taking the same path to
work every single day, that path
1354
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,360
is ingrained, right?
And it gets deeper and deeper
1355
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:11,400
and deeper.
Imagine that.
1356
01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:16,160
And then over time you could put
planks because it's so deep,
1357
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:17,760
it's muddy.
You put planks and you make it
1358
01:04:17,760 --> 01:04:22,120
even more solid, right?
And that's where, you know,
1359
01:04:22,120 --> 01:04:25,640
chemicals start to get secreted
in your brain.
1360
01:04:25,640 --> 01:04:27,840
And that path is really well
defined.
1361
01:04:27,880 --> 01:04:29,960
OK, I want to go on a different
path.
1362
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:34,680
So now how do you do that?
How do I create new neural
1363
01:04:34,680 --> 01:04:36,440
pathway?
So I want to change.
1364
01:04:36,800 --> 01:04:40,200
So first of all you have to try
something different, you have to
1365
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,480
think differently and you have
to try something different.
1366
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:44,800
So when I say like, you don't.
Do a big thing or could be a
1367
01:04:44,800 --> 01:04:46,440
little.
No, really small.
1368
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,840
They can watch for example.
So let's say saves.
1369
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:50,720
Me let's.
Afternoon, let's say.
1370
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,880
Wait, let's think about, you
know, let's say you you think
1371
01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,840
poorly about yourself, for
example, OK, I'm not good
1372
01:04:56,880 --> 01:04:57,880
enough.
I'm not good enough.
1373
01:04:58,160 --> 01:05:00,800
OK, you were born, your parents
would say you're not good
1374
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:02,280
enough.
You grew up thinking I'm not
1375
01:05:02,280 --> 01:05:04,560
good enough.
Now that pathway is pretty set
1376
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:06,560
in the brain.
So everything that hits you in
1377
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:09,080
life says I'm not good enough.
I can't do this, right.
1378
01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:11,560
OK, so now I want to change
that.
1379
01:05:12,000 --> 01:05:16,720
So there have been studies that
show that the first thing, one
1380
01:05:16,720 --> 01:05:19,600
of the first things that you can
do is like, you can cheer
1381
01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:22,840
yourself on like a coach and
say, no, you can do this.
1382
01:05:23,480 --> 01:05:25,200
I started doing it when I jog.
Do you I?
1383
01:05:25,200 --> 01:05:27,080
Did it when I jog Yeah, that's
even more, especially when I was
1384
01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:29,520
my parents if you.
Have movement and a thought
1385
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:32,440
that's even more powerful and
creating neuroplastics like
1386
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:34,920
changes in your brain.
One of the, when I, I, I used
1387
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:40,640
to, I grew up in upstate New
York in Rockland County and, and
1388
01:05:40,640 --> 01:05:42,520
it's very hilly there.
And I, you know, I started, I
1389
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:46,720
started jogging just after
college and, and I was, you
1390
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:50,480
know, I'd take on these huge
hills and then I would say to
1391
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:53,240
myself while I'm doing it, like
you have you got this?
1392
01:05:53,240 --> 01:05:55,640
You got, I'd say it out loud.
I'd hear it over my music on my
1393
01:05:55,640 --> 01:05:57,640
headphones while I'm driving up.
Like you got this.
1394
01:05:57,880 --> 01:05:59,160
The only thing stopping you is
you.
1395
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:00,240
The only thing stopping you is
you.
1396
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:01,800
You got this, you got this, you
got this.
1397
01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:05,480
And I would get, I'd even feel
like a little pick me up.
1398
01:06:05,480 --> 01:06:07,880
Like I feel like my almost like
my legs are like almost like a
1399
01:06:07,920 --> 01:06:12,520
little like pick up and didn't
magically change my performance,
1400
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:14,560
you know, 100%.
But it takes time.
1401
01:06:14,760 --> 01:06:17,680
Yeah, but it definitely, Yeah,
overtime for sure, for sure, for
1402
01:06:17,680 --> 01:06:19,920
sure.
And even saying the like, what
1403
01:06:19,920 --> 01:06:21,880
did you say the only?
The only thing stopping me is
1404
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:22,400
me.
Right.
1405
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:25,240
So even that has a little
negative connotation.
1406
01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:29,280
So if you made that more
positive, like, listen, you,
1407
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:33,040
you've done this before in your
life, you've overcome other
1408
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,560
situations, like think about
something that you've overcome,
1409
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:39,400
then you go, you can do this.
I did that just now, actually
1410
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:42,840
with my I had a fall on panic
attack before my son was born.
1411
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,960
I wasn't ready to be a dad.
Yeah.
1412
01:06:45,120 --> 01:06:46,720
I don't know what I don't know.
I'm ready.
1413
01:06:46,720 --> 01:06:47,920
I don't know what it means to
you already.
1414
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:48,920
I don't know.
Oh, my God.
1415
01:06:48,920 --> 01:06:51,080
And like, I'm afraid, you know,
the doctor goes, OK, it's time.
1416
01:06:51,080 --> 01:06:53,080
I'm like, I'm not ready to like,
we're not asking you like.
1417
01:06:53,400 --> 01:06:55,680
And then this time I was about
to, you know, I felt that a
1418
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:59,280
similar sensation.
And I said to myself, what are
1419
01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:01,520
you nervous?
You're not going to be ready.
1420
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:05,040
But you've already done this
with a kid.
1421
01:07:05,240 --> 01:07:06,680
Like I'm not going to.
I know.
1422
01:07:06,680 --> 01:07:08,080
OK.
So like, think about what?
1423
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:09,840
I'm nervous.
I'm nervous about the fact that
1424
01:07:09,840 --> 01:07:11,360
it's going to be uncomfortable
with my wife is.
1425
01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:13,320
I'm nervous because I don't want
to look anywhere near that while
1426
01:07:13,320 --> 01:07:16,040
it's happening.
I'm nervous because, you know,
1427
01:07:16,360 --> 01:07:17,920
I'm not going to sleep for the
first couple of months.
1428
01:07:18,480 --> 01:07:20,560
You did that already.
What are you so nervous about?
1429
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:22,120
You did that already.
You know, I actually had to
1430
01:07:22,120 --> 01:07:26,680
write that down to myself.
And when it came time, it was
1431
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:29,760
the calmest I've ever It was
such a calm birth.
1432
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,400
It was such a calm experience.
Because you could have gone down
1433
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:34,400
the path of.
Being I felt starting, I really
1434
01:07:34,400 --> 01:07:36,240
felt the starting and my wife
and I talked about it.
1435
01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,520
I was like, I'm getting nervous.
I'm getting.
1436
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:41,640
You created new neural pathways.
That's neuroplasticity.
1437
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:44,280
That's neuroplasticity.
Yeah, because you could have
1438
01:07:44,320 --> 01:07:48,600
easily just stayed in that panic
mode and up until the birth been
1439
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:52,080
in panic mode and after the
birth been in panic mode and
1440
01:07:52,080 --> 01:07:53,720
you're not.
So something changed.
1441
01:07:53,720 --> 01:07:55,680
Yeah.
So you took a you took a
1442
01:07:55,680 --> 01:07:58,600
thought, you took a process in
your body that says I'm not
1443
01:07:58,600 --> 01:08:01,320
going to be ready.
I, you know, whatever negativity
1444
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,000
you had and you made it
something different, that's a
1445
01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:06,320
different part of your brain
when you take that.
1446
01:08:07,160 --> 01:08:09,120
Right thought.
I mean unexplored territories.
1447
01:08:09,440 --> 01:08:11,840
It's positive.
It's part of.
1448
01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:14,880
Your brain that's you've
accessed a different part of
1449
01:08:14,880 --> 01:08:17,200
your brain.
Now you have to nourish that
1450
01:08:17,200 --> 01:08:20,080
path, right?
Because that path is new.
1451
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,240
So it's not just enough to have
it, I have to make sure that I'm
1452
01:08:24,279 --> 01:08:25,840
tending.
To now you have to nourish it.
1453
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:27,760
Yeah.
And you have to make it hard
1454
01:08:27,760 --> 01:08:29,399
wired, Right.
Right.
1455
01:08:29,399 --> 01:08:31,720
Because it's still fresh, right?
Like a path.
1456
01:08:31,720 --> 01:08:35,160
If you walk through grass and
it's like the first time you
1457
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,319
walk, you may not look back and
see there's a path.
1458
01:08:38,319 --> 01:08:41,680
But if you walk it 100 times,
now all of a sudden, oh, I see
1459
01:08:42,240 --> 01:08:46,479
that path is worn.
So now you work on that thought
1460
01:08:46,479 --> 01:08:48,160
process.
The next time you have a panic
1461
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:50,560
attack, hopefully you won't.
But if you do, you go.
1462
01:08:50,560 --> 01:08:53,520
No, I've been here.
I know what this is.
1463
01:08:54,760 --> 01:08:56,840
I know what to do.
I've got this.
1464
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,359
I don't need to go here.
I've got this.
1465
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:02,479
I know exactly what this is.
And actually you can ask
1466
01:09:02,479 --> 01:09:05,319
yourself, like, you know, did it
serve me?
1467
01:09:06,359 --> 01:09:08,279
That's a great question too.
Did it serve me?
1468
01:09:08,640 --> 01:09:12,439
Right, because a lot of times
your body, the reason you went
1469
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:16,080
into that panic mode is because
you had an experience it usually
1470
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:18,200
you know, something brought you
to that, you think you've had it
1471
01:09:18,200 --> 01:09:21,600
before.
So you have to think, did that,
1472
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:25,160
Did it serve me to have that?
And usually it's did it.
1473
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:27,200
Yeah.
Did it help you?
1474
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:29,800
No, right?
Never.
1475
01:09:30,319 --> 01:09:33,399
Never.
Well, actually the only time
1476
01:09:33,399 --> 01:09:35,960
that I think it might have is
when it comes to being able to
1477
01:09:35,960 --> 01:09:38,399
relate to other people.
Having a panic attack.
1478
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:40,800
Meaning to be able to say, I
know that you've been like, I
1479
01:09:40,800 --> 01:09:42,760
know what you're going through
empathy, empathy.
1480
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:44,800
It helps my it helps enormously
with empathy.
1481
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:45,640
Yeah.
Well, that's good.
1482
01:09:45,840 --> 01:09:49,439
That's I, I, you know, I
understand where you're going
1483
01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,479
through right?
And I, I also, you know, I too
1484
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:56,000
have had these concerns, these
fears, these insecurities and
1485
01:09:56,000 --> 01:09:59,320
I'm, I, I've been where, you
know, I have stood in the same
1486
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,160
pair of shoes already.
You know, you're going to be
1487
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,760
fine and like, or, or, you know,
or whatever.
1488
01:10:03,760 --> 01:10:06,160
I know it doesn't feel like it,
but you're going to, you're not
1489
01:10:06,160 --> 01:10:08,000
going to not figure it out, you
know, so.
1490
01:10:08,200 --> 01:10:11,000
Yeah, that's true.
I mean, I actually, I, I so
1491
01:10:11,000 --> 01:10:13,480
relate to that because so many
times things happen in my life
1492
01:10:13,480 --> 01:10:15,560
and I'm like, wait a second, I
didn't sign up for this.
1493
01:10:15,560 --> 01:10:19,120
Why isn't that this, this
doesn't really fit.
1494
01:10:19,680 --> 01:10:21,440
And then I'll have a patient
come in.
1495
01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,760
Oh, no way.
Yeah, or it may not be right
1496
01:10:24,760 --> 01:10:27,680
away.
Yeah, maybe a while later and I
1497
01:10:27,680 --> 01:10:32,080
go, oh, I know what you're going
through and I can, I can help
1498
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:34,800
you move through this.
So there's always value if you
1499
01:10:34,800 --> 01:10:38,440
can see the value in it, it
changes your perspective.
1500
01:10:38,440 --> 01:10:41,040
And once you change your
perspective, you create a new
1501
01:10:41,040 --> 01:10:43,560
neural pathway that's part of
neural.
1502
01:10:43,560 --> 01:10:46,280
So you're.
So you're working actively on
1503
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:48,720
your neuroplasticity now or
you're you're OK?
1504
01:10:48,840 --> 01:10:50,280
Gotcha.
So what is the reason what
1505
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:52,720
you're working?
On so right now I'm I'm doing
1506
01:10:52,720 --> 01:10:58,400
this experiment with normally I
used to myself talk was I OK OK
1507
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:03,680
like I am what whatever I'm
capable, I am powerful whatever
1508
01:11:03,960 --> 01:11:07,360
that's a lot of the self talk
and I realized there's been some
1509
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:11,480
studies that show that the more
powerful way to do it is like
1510
01:11:11,480 --> 01:11:15,000
coaching yourself as if.
You as opposed to I.
1511
01:11:15,080 --> 01:11:19,360
You interesting as a powerful
game changer when it comes to
1512
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:23,280
neuroplasticity is kind of
coaching yourself.
1513
01:11:23,280 --> 01:11:26,840
So I, I now I put myself in it
because a lot of times, even
1514
01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:30,120
when I'm talking to sometimes
you know, you have friends,
1515
01:11:30,120 --> 01:11:32,320
you're going through something
and they can't hear what you're
1516
01:11:32,320 --> 01:11:33,960
saying.
Even when I'm going through
1517
01:11:33,960 --> 01:11:35,320
something, sometimes you just
can't hear.
1518
01:11:36,200 --> 01:11:39,000
So I say, what would you say to
a friend, your bestie, if your
1519
01:11:39,000 --> 01:11:41,920
bestie was going through this?
What would you tell them?
1520
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:45,000
Now do that to yourself.
It's the hardest thing to do.
1521
01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,000
It's really hard.
I had to do that for a breakup
1522
01:11:47,000 --> 01:11:49,360
one time when I was in college.
More than one, believe me, more
1523
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:50,760
than once.
But I've been in college with a
1524
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:54,160
really long relationship with 2
1/2, two years, two years plus
1525
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,200
my entire college experience
while I was there because I
1526
01:11:57,200 --> 01:11:59,880
transferred it.
And I was in this relationship.
1527
01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:01,960
I remember thinking to myself,
like, if my friend came up to me
1528
01:12:01,960 --> 01:12:05,000
and told me this whole story and
asked me what I would do, what
1529
01:12:05,000 --> 01:12:05,680
would you do?
Yeah.
1530
01:12:06,160 --> 01:12:10,400
And I was like, I don't want to,
I don't want, I don't want to
1531
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:12,840
tell them that, you know, but it
comes to you, you know.
1532
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:15,760
Then how would you coach them?
How would you coach them out of
1533
01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,520
it, right?
Like you really have to set
1534
01:12:18,520 --> 01:12:20,320
yourself aside.
Like you're going through a
1535
01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,000
breakup and you'd say, hey,
dude, you got this.
1536
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:25,000
Like there's going to be other
women.
1537
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:28,200
You're going to be fine like.
That studies observed that the I
1538
01:12:28,200 --> 01:12:31,520
versus you because I, I, I, I
did notice that I, I refer to
1539
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:33,160
myself as you.
That's.
1540
01:12:33,200 --> 01:12:35,400
Good.
Yeah, but I don't know why.
1541
01:12:35,400 --> 01:12:38,040
It just kind of felt better.
Maybe you watched a Seinfeld
1542
01:12:38,040 --> 01:12:38,720
episode?
Probably.
1543
01:12:38,960 --> 01:12:43,240
I love, I love Seinfeld.
Timmy.
1544
01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:47,240
Here's a Timmy, right?
Timmy fell.
1545
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:48,080
Timmy's in vain.
Yeah.
1546
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:51,480
Don't do this in public.
This is all about your head.
1547
01:12:51,560 --> 01:12:56,040
Everyone is going to do this
vodka inside your head, not in
1548
01:12:56,040 --> 01:12:57,760
pelvic.
You do not refer to yourself in
1549
01:12:57,760 --> 01:12:59,080
3rd.
First, yes, correct.
1550
01:12:59,160 --> 01:13:00,840
Correct.
Unless you're in Seinfeld and
1551
01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,240
then you're OK, then yeah.
That's there's a camera on here
1552
01:13:03,240 --> 01:13:05,920
Yeah, hilarious.
But yeah, they show.
1553
01:13:06,120 --> 01:13:09,560
So I'm experimenting with that
because a lot of teachers in the
1554
01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:14,000
self help world are, are
focusing on the eye and you
1555
01:13:14,000 --> 01:13:16,280
know, I'm so I'm experimenting
with that.
1556
01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:20,560
And I know with neuroplasticity,
it's also in when you do
1557
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:24,400
exercise, when you have so
movement allows more blood flow
1558
01:13:24,400 --> 01:13:28,000
to to the brain anyway.
So you know, before you want to
1559
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:32,120
study or before you give a talk
or something where you need full
1560
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:34,720
blown brain capacity, it's good
to do some exercise because it
1561
01:13:34,720 --> 01:13:36,040
gets the blood flowing to the
brain.
1562
01:13:36,040 --> 01:13:38,200
Those 60,000 miles get active,
right?
1563
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:43,800
But if you pair it with
exercise, so you change, you
1564
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:47,600
have to change the way you
think, which is not easy, but
1565
01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:49,200
it's practice like anything
else.
1566
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,520
And now we're going to talk in
third person and we're going to
1567
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:53,480
coach ourselves.
You know, we're going to say you
1568
01:13:53,480 --> 01:13:57,080
can, you got this girl, you got
this, you've done this.
1569
01:13:57,080 --> 01:13:58,200
So it's important.
To do this, why?
1570
01:13:58,320 --> 01:14:01,480
But it's it's extra, extra
reinforcement if you're doing it
1571
01:14:01,480 --> 01:14:02,960
while you're exercising or while
you're moving.
1572
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:07,080
I'm taking two studies in
neuroplasticity where, you know,
1573
01:14:07,080 --> 01:14:11,800
they say when you exercise, if
you crossover like you, if
1574
01:14:11,800 --> 01:14:14,080
you're doing that, you're
thinking at the same time.
1575
01:14:14,080 --> 01:14:17,320
And what that does is it creates
a lot of neuronal response in
1576
01:14:17,320 --> 01:14:18,400
your brain.
So it's good.
1577
01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:21,640
I teach my patients with
dementia or Alzheimer's, like
1578
01:14:21,640 --> 01:14:25,760
when they're sorry or when they
feel you have memory loss.
1579
01:14:26,560 --> 01:14:30,400
One of the exercises that I tell
them to do is crossover when
1580
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:34,080
while you're exercising across
your body, like across the
1581
01:14:34,080 --> 01:14:35,880
midline.
Interesting.
1582
01:14:35,880 --> 01:14:37,360
Why are you doing any kind of
exercise?
1583
01:14:37,960 --> 01:14:41,680
Well, just at least some of your
exercise should incorporate
1584
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:44,160
cross interesting.
Why that if you're because it
1585
01:14:44,200 --> 01:14:47,640
it, it enhances brain activity.
So now you've added a different
1586
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:48,600
element.
Oh, interesting.
1587
01:14:48,600 --> 01:14:51,560
So if you're just doing up and
down, it doesn't have as much
1588
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,640
brain activity as now if you're
going across Oh, it's so
1589
01:14:54,920 --> 01:14:56,640
interesting.
You add a conversation.
1590
01:14:56,640 --> 01:14:59,200
So if you're out with your
girlfriends or your guy friends
1591
01:14:59,200 --> 01:15:01,320
and you're walking and you're
talking and you're thinking
1592
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:04,480
that's that's adding more brain
activity.
1593
01:15:04,640 --> 01:15:07,040
Yeah.
So I'm combining all of these on
1594
01:15:07,040 --> 01:15:09,000
my own thinking.
Well, I don't think there's a
1595
01:15:09,000 --> 01:15:10,600
study.
I'm thinking it up on my.
1596
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,960
I love it, I love it.
I'm going to exercise and I'm
1597
01:15:12,960 --> 01:15:15,400
going to crossover.
I'm going to make sure I do
1598
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:19,280
cross the midline on my body and
I'm going to do this type of
1599
01:15:19,280 --> 01:15:21,480
thinking.
I'm going to coach myself, yeah,
1600
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:23,720
and I'll let you know what
happened.
1601
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,800
I want to know.
I want to know, You know, Steve
1602
01:15:25,800 --> 01:15:27,920
Jobs used to do all his business
meetings on walks.
1603
01:15:28,040 --> 01:15:30,240
He wouldn't do them in office
great idea.
1604
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:33,640
You know you know your most
intense conversation, big
1605
01:15:33,640 --> 01:15:36,240
corporate merger or whatever it
is love that go for a walk.
1606
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:37,720
That's what he would say every
single time.
1607
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:40,560
Let's go for a walk and they
take a 45 minute hour long walk
1608
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:42,360
while they were.
I love it.
1609
01:15:42,440 --> 01:15:43,920
Yeah.
I think fun of me at work
1610
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:47,280
because I'm always ex moving.
Yeah, I wouldn't say exercising,
1611
01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,400
but I always have a stand up
desk.
1612
01:15:49,400 --> 01:15:51,160
I have a bouncing ball.
Amazing desk.
1613
01:15:51,800 --> 01:15:54,240
And yeah, it looks weird.
I mean, people make fun of God.
1614
01:15:54,560 --> 01:15:56,920
It shows life, it shows
enthusiasm, it shows life.
1615
01:15:56,920 --> 01:15:58,280
It shows.
It shows that you're vital.
1616
01:15:58,280 --> 01:16:01,680
It keeps vitality.
It's better than sitting at a
1617
01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:03,360
desk all day, you know what I
mean?
1618
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,680
If I'm going to have to stare at
a computer, I want to be moving
1619
01:16:05,680 --> 01:16:07,360
at the same time.
I want I want something
1620
01:16:07,360 --> 01:16:09,600
productive to come physically
health.
1621
01:16:09,600 --> 01:16:13,080
Wise, Yeah, yeah, definitely I
have to run this.
1622
01:16:13,240 --> 01:16:16,400
I'm so sad that I have to run
too because I feel like we
1623
01:16:16,400 --> 01:16:18,160
didn't.
I feel like we're just, I feel
1624
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:22,440
like we're 5 minutes in.
So I hope we'll do Part 2.
1625
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:26,240
You can do it soon or hopefully
in many parts, as you know, as
1626
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:29,000
the podcast keeps on going and
as you keep on learning and
1627
01:16:29,000 --> 01:16:32,120
growing.
But this is so much fun.
1628
01:16:32,360 --> 01:16:37,200
We barely, you barely skim the,
you know, we barely skim the
1629
01:16:37,200 --> 01:16:39,520
big, the the bucket.
Yeah, exactly.
1630
01:16:39,520 --> 01:16:41,720
So I hope we can do another,
another podcast soon.
1631
01:16:42,440 --> 01:16:44,160
But this is so much fun.
Thank you so much for taking the
1632
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:44,480
time.
Thank.
1633
01:16:44,480 --> 01:16:46,320
You so much.
I'll talk to you.
1634
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:47,200
Thank you so much.